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Monday, November 30, 2009

How do you feel when guys check out your boobs?

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Last night at an event honoring Michael Douglas, his father Kirk was caught gazing upon Catherine Zeta-Jones' breasts. She has a lovely décolletage and bountiful cleavage, but an older man checking out his daughter-in-law's rack? Kinda creepy.

The "my-eyes-are-up-here" phenomenon is one that has probably existed since the beginning of time and will never go away. Men see boobs and they can't help but look. Whether we wear a turtleneck or a low-cut top with a push-up bra, guys like checking out our boobs.

While looking through photos my friend took at my birthday dinner, I noticed a picture of my boyfriend staring at my chest. It was hilarious! Obviously, he's my boyfriend, so I'm not embarrassed or annoyed, I just think it's funny that he was caught on camera taking a peek. On the other hand, in real world situations when I detect a stranger--particularly a much older man--distracted and looking at my boobs I am completely grossed out and feel uncomfortable.

Many women go out in revealing shirts with the exact intention of grabbing a man's attention, so why is it that in certain instances a guy taking a look makes us feel angry, annoyed or disgusted?

How do you react when you catch a guy looking at your boobs?
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  • marineka's Avatar
    Posted by marineka Wed Jul 1, 2009 10:27am PDT

    its not propper for a woman to dress in clothing that shows her boobs ,thats like saying HEY GUY WATCH ALL YOU WANT I DONT MIND ,i dont blame the guys ,because if you dress like that and a guy keep looking at them there is nothing you can do about it ,come on ladies respect your self and every one else would have no choice but to do the same

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  • Mike's Avatar
    Posted by Mike Wed Jul 1, 2009 4:42pm PDT

    boob's are cool but me i'm an azz man. big boobs, little boobs, boobs are boobs, but, theres nothin like a nice butt so ladies show some booty to.

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  • T ForrestB's Avatar
    Posted by T ForrestB Wed Jul 1, 2009 10:01pm PDT

    If you have your eye magnets out for the world to see do no't be surprised if they attract attention, and not just from guys who look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney. If they walked by you on the beach you'd probably sneek a peek too. Even if there's no cleavage or nippage, unless you're wearing a burka guys will gander. As long as they don't make a grossout face, take it as a compliment.

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  • Dr.A.Levent's Avatar
    Posted by Dr.A.Levent Wed Jul 15, 2009 3:39pm PDT

    girls like to be looked at whatever their age is... and men like to look at whatever their age is.

    yaplaa

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  • Mikey's Avatar
    Posted by Mikey Sun Aug 9, 2009 5:30am PDT

    This is a double standard you women need to realize you're perpetuating. There's a funny line I've told others regarding men looking at women. Here goes.....

    Now, remember this. The day that things really get worse is when..... your guy stops looking at other women ?????....because, he is now.....looking at other men!!

    Yet, think about it. Do we men get jealous when women look at other women?

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  • tukhore's Avatar
    Posted by tukhore Wed Oct 21, 2009 8:03pm PDT

    If we, guys not check out your boobs, won't you feel frustrated, less important, un-noticed, ignored, overlooked?

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