How do you Know when He's Just Not that into You?

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  Posted by casy Tue Nov 25, 2008 2:06pm PST

  Love the Love pix. Thats so cool. You know when their not. Your gut feelings well tell you. If you don't feel it from them , then their not. If they call you all the time and want to be with you. And you have feel good when your around him, thats it. How does he make you feel. Do you feel special or just unsure all the time? Theres a book out called" Hes just into you" Thats worth reading also.

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  Posted by Jasmine Tue Nov 25, 2008 2:09pm PST

  I hope so because its a bit confusuing

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  Posted by courtneyb Tue Nov 25, 2008 2:11pm PST

  i am definitely not a man. but when a guy is into you, you can just feel it. but all guys arent the same but heres some examples: they call you just to see what you are doing,spend a lot of time together,a lot of compliments. when you are with him, how do you feel? do you feel like you are into him more than he is into you? because sometimes us women tend to fall a little bit harder than the average man butthat doesnt mean hes not into you. maybe he just have his own way of showing it. if you see yourself caling him all the time and he never call you then maybe hes not into you. maybe hes just hopin you get the hint. well i hope i answered your question ok. good luck sweety.

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  Posted by Arlene B Tue Nov 25, 2008 2:15pm PST

  Casy's got the right idea. Except I like to put it this way - you will KNOW when he IS into you. If you are getting the slightest signal otherwise, he just isn't that into you.

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  Posted by 2 Damn Defiant Tue Nov 25, 2008 2:17pm PST

  if they are not I think they do the same things girls do when they are not interested like not calling, and when it comes to wanting to hang out it's like pulling teeth!!

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  Posted by casy Tue Nov 25, 2008 2:20pm PST

  And by the looks of you photo you shouldn't have a problem. Your very pretty and look happy.

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  Posted by Raeann Tue Nov 25, 2008 2:27pm PST

  I totally agree with the other comments! A good way to test it is not to call him or text him.. make him contact you! If he wants to go out make him plan a date! Good luck!

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  Posted by casy Tue Nov 25, 2008 2:29pm PST

  Thanks Arlene...Thats right.....LOL ..................C

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  Posted by The Viper Tue Nov 25, 2008 2:46pm PST

  From a guys view, if you don't know, and you resort to testing him like not calling him first or waiting for him to call you. Those are pretty good signs that he's not. You need to know him some what,I am a romantic at heart so, flowers for no reason, little notes on the bathroom mirror or any of that are just the way I am when I love someone. Like I keep saying in other posts we are not all the same, so you can't really expect a guy who isn't like that or isn't good at that to do that! I guess the main thing I wanted to say is if you can't tell, ASK!! Playing games like the phone test will only end up badly. Use that saying do unto others, would you like to be tested?

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  Posted by Portia Sun Dec 7, 2008 12:57pm PST

  i would like to know as well but my mom use to tell me a little bit of a half decent man is better then havin no man...its a sayin older people go buy ask you great grandmother from like way back in the day

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