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Saturday, December 5, 2009

How To Impress Your Date On A Dime

By Katie Adams

"A light purse makes a heavy heart," or so says the old proverb.

If the recession has put a damper on your disposable income don't despair—it needn't take the fun out of your love life. In fact, there are many things you can do on a date that don't cost a fortune. But there's one caveat: The key to succeeding at a cheap date is all in how you pitch it. Above all, this means you should avoid haggling, asking for a discount, showing your coupons, telling your date that you're worried about money, or complaining about the cost!

Read on for 10 ways to impress your date on a dime, despite the economic slowdown. Feel free to add a few of your own ideas to the list ...

In Depth: 25 Ways To Impress Your Date On A Dime

1.  Stay In
Sure going to the movies is fun—who doesn't like paying $4 for a Snickers bar and $7.50 for a soda? Instead, save the money, buy some movie-sized treats at the grocery store and spend the evening in. You can pick up a movie through a RedBox location for only $1, at most Blockbuster stores for $2 daily, or watch a show you've already taped to DVR or TiVO.

2.  Cook Up Some Romance

If you're going out to a concert or a sporting event, cook dinner together at home. This will save the money you would have spent in a restaurant and, rather than waiting for a table, you can spend the time impressing your date with your cooking skills (or laughing about your lack thereof).

3.  Pack a Picnic 
Cut the cost of any date by bringing your meal. Many outdoor amphitheaters will even let you bring a picnic basket or cooler, so take advantage and avoid spending on overpriced mediocre meals.

4.  Break the Rules
If you'd like to take your date out to eat think early. Lunch is always cheaper than dinner—and breakfast trumps them all.

5.  Love and Learn
Check out the schedule for classes offered through your local recreation center, gym or arts studio and find one you'd enjoy taking together. When you break the cost down per date, it's often very affordable, and a fun way to build a relationship while you're building some skills (or laughing at each other while you're trying)!

6.  Volunteer Your Valentine
If the point of a date is being together, why not do some good while you're at it? Look for volunteer opportunities to serve meals at a local soup kitchen or homeless shelter, walk dogs at the local shelter, stock shelves at a food pantry, or whatever cause tugs on your heart.

7.  Enjoy an Afternoon Delight
If you just can't wait for the movie to come out on DVD, save a few dollars on tickets by seeing the early show.

8.  Shop Smart
Warehouse club stores like Sam's Club, BJ's and Costco often sell reduced-rate gift certificates and coupons for local restaurants, golf courses, spas and more. Find discounts at SmartCircle.com and half-price gift certificates at local eateries on Restaurant.com.  (To learn more, read Coupon Shopping: Clip Your Way To Savings.)

9.  Get Progressive 
Instead of footing the bill for an entire evening out, invite friends to do a "progressive" party, where guests go from house to house enjoying an appetizer, entrée or desert. You'll have fun and save money by splitting the costs.

10. Scout It Out
Spending a day cruising garage sales, swap meets and flea markets can be a cheap way to stumble across some great vintage finds - you'll probably share a few good laughs as well. (For tips on holding your own garage sale, see In A Cash Crunch? Hold A Yard Sale.)

In Depth: 25 Ways To Impress Your Date On A Dime

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  • Jules's Avatar
    Posted by Jules Wed Sep 16, 2009 2:28pm PDT

    Nope, cheap dates are not for me.

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  • ILoveFriday's Avatar
    Posted by ILoveFriday Wed Sep 16, 2009 3:06pm PDT

    To: Jules

    I love your comment!! "Nope, cheap dates are not for me." -lol-That's great!!

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  • Various (depending on who you talk to)'s Avatar
    Posted by Various (depending on who you talk to) Wed Sep 16, 2009 4:07pm PDT

    One of the best dates I ever had was a surprise picnic on the beach...oh so romantic!

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  • Crystal's Avatar
    Posted by Crystal Thu Sep 17, 2009 7:23am PDT

    HOW DO BE WITH A MAN THAT HAVE A GIRL AND NOT BE MAD BUT YOU CANT LEAVE HIM CUZ YOU LOVE HOW HE TRAT YOU........

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  • KittyKat's Avatar
    Posted by KittyKat Thu Sep 17, 2009 6:26pm PDT

    Love all those ideas espcially the picnics.

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  • Rida's Avatar
    Posted by Rida Fri Sep 18, 2009 8:10am PDT

    i think going for picnic and watching moveis is best all of them

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  • Francis's Avatar
    Posted by Francis Fri Sep 18, 2009 3:28pm PDT

    Love all those ideas espcially the picnics.

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  • Joy in Seattle's Avatar
    Posted by Joy in Seattle Fri Sep 18, 2009 5:28pm PDT

    I prefer "dates" to include hiking, walk around Green Lake, hours talking over a cup of coffee, a bike ride, you know, something outdoors and not expensive.

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  • Abdul Jaleel's Avatar
    Posted by Abdul Jaleel Fri Sep 18, 2009 6:06pm PDT

    We can support each other all day to day activities.

    And good concideration in bed.

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  • Tony's Avatar
    Posted by Tony Fri Sep 18, 2009 9:01pm PDT

    love and sex I'd like it

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