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Saturday, September 6, 2008

How to move forward in life??

How can I start this blog.....well lately I have been feeling down, since the relationship I was in for almost 2 years, ended couple of weeks ago.  I do miss him, but I know deep down in my heart that being with him, will only complicate things in my life.  Is just how can I foget all the memories we had together, and everything that we went through together.  I haven't seen him since the breakup, but I've heard people say that he is doing better than ever, and that he couldn't be any happier.  When I hear people say this, it only makes me feel worse, because I'm the one crying.  Sometimes I just wished that our relationship wouldn't of ever happened but at moments I see it like, its a phase of my life that I've lived and now its time to move forward with life, but HOW??

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  • tessyoneknobi's Avatar
    Posted by tessyoneknobi Fri Apr 4, 2008 6:44am PDT

    You can't forget memories with him. They will always be part of you. You can go forward and need to. Someday this situation will be a testimony for you to use for someone else. Keep yourself busy with postitive things.

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    Posted by Shana Fri Apr 4, 2008 7:00am PDT

    It is a tough and complicated thing to break up with someone. Take the days one at a time. Look inside yourself. What do you want out of life? How do you view yourself? Do the things you want to. Enjoy your life and move on. It is hard but you have to know that your life does not revolve around this man. Sure you had lots of great memories and times but those are gone now. But the impression and changes they made on you are not. Learn from them and use them to better yourself. Have a fun girlfriend and don't let one guy ruin your life. Don't waste all the life and love you have to give by mopeing around. Live. I have been through the same heart breaking situation. The guy I loved is happy and married now and I am glad for that. I am also married and have three beautiful kids. Now whenever I talk to my old boyfriend I have nothing to be sad about or ashamed because I made peace with myself. I am so thankful for the family I have now, I wouldnt change one thing. Hang in there girl things do get better.

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