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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

I am in love and now living with the perfect guy for me

This is concept. It is about who and what is right for me. I have in no way shape or form met ,been in any type of contact or come across this person yet. THIS WRITING IS ABOUT NO ONE! more of a meeting of the right guy



We met and there was just that knowing instant attraction. The chemistry like lightening bolts surging through electrical outlets and recepticles flooded in 4 feet of water. He comes home from work or whatever he may have been out doing walks in takes off his kicks at the door cause he knows and understands how much I hate shoes on the carpet. He takes off and throws his shirt on the floor a quirk I have to deal with and give into because he remembers his shoes but not that the laundry basket is the next room over. It makes me smile everytime I pick it up and throw it in the basket for him.Whats for dinner/ Hmm...he's easy pizza take out or fast food. So he really apprechiates it when I take the time to cook for him four times a week and a massacare of food every Sunday morning because I am adimant about having Sunday breakfast.We like to have family and friends over twice a week and want neither living with us.We hate eachothers parents and siblings but we are nice anyway.We like to go out and hang out club style about 3-4 times a month. We each pick a day of the week or two to hang out with our own friends. He brings me a beer and sits back in jeans, socks, and shirtless. I lay my head against his chest or on his lap while sipping my beer. He is laid back and relaxed as I hear the heartbeat of his chest or am comforted by a familiar feeling of his jeans as I lay against his lap.I am talking to much as always and he just sweetly smiles as he is concentrated on rolling his joint around my head.I b---- at the dog for being up on the leather couch and he sticks his index finger to my lips and says shhhh! He is strong in his opinions and can be rash against others but never with me. He smiles and pets the dog gives me a sweet tap on the ass and says "It's ok baby he is not doing anything but laying there." I give into him and the dog  taking a sip of the beer and he gives into the weed as he deeply inhales. His chest swells and I love the feel of the structure of his chest against my resting ear and hair. I love the rise and hold because I feel as though i become one with him and his heartbeat and can almost feel the blood that rushes and pumps through his veins as he holds the smoke in.When he breathes out and exhales it breathes new life into me.For he is my best friend and when I am with him or in his presence I feel safe loved comfortable and protected. When he runs his hand through my hair and rubs my head telling me he loves me I melt and give in to everything that is the essence , soul and being of him.TOO BAD I HAVEN'T MET HIM YET BUT...I WILL ONE DAY I WILL!
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  • J.P.'s Avatar
    Posted by J.P. Sun Nov 29, 2009 4:56pm PST

    Sweetheart, there is no PERFECT GUY. Get that dream out of your head and learn there was never a perfect guy for the exception of Jesus Christ. Clear your head and open your mind and take a really good look at what you have said. GOOD LUCK.

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  • peacegirlalways's Avatar
    Posted by peacegirlalways Sun Nov 29, 2009 5:15pm PST

    you can try but you can only get 50% of perfect...face it no guy is perfect

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  • Alexus's Avatar
    Posted by Alexus Sun Nov 29, 2009 5:39pm PST

    JP Yeah Jesus is pretty cool. In my mind this is perfect FOR ME! MY IDEA OF A GUY AND A RELATIONSHIP!It's not a dream I've had it before and don't ask why I don't still have it now the answer is he is deceased. I actually have had this kind of laid back relationship twice. My minds open to this person when he comes along.

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  • Alexus's Avatar
    Posted by Alexus Sun Nov 29, 2009 5:42pm PST

    SUPER Damn thats a long one you're right there is no perfect guy or woman. But it is what is comfortable to us in our minds and more importantly compatible. Have a good night. I've looked at it J.P. and I know exactly what I said and was reliving a previous experience

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  • Robert's Avatar
    Posted by Robert Sun Nov 29, 2009 10:12pm PST

    He or she is not out there, just someone you can get along with. People are being brainwashed with this notion of a perfect person. There is no soul mate, it's in your head. Wake up to reality.

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  • Alexus's Avatar
    Posted by Alexus Sun Nov 29, 2009 10:30pm PST

    Robert I don't believe in soulmates! if you read this this is actually a normal day to day comfortable laid back life. Maybe minus the weed for some. I don't smoke but know lots that do. This is just about having someone that comes home to you everyday and just hanging out with them...Really people thats all it is and if you have ever laid against someones chest have you not just listened to their heartbeat? Hmm maybe that makes me odd? I have lived this lifestyle maybe I am luckier in love at times than I think. This is just about being able to let your walls down and be yourself around someone.

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  • Alexus's Avatar
    Posted by Alexus Sun Nov 29, 2009 10:31pm PST

    I dI NOT SAY THE PERFECT PERSON!!! I SAID MY PERFECT PERSON AND YES TO GET ALONG WITH

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  • Chrystal's Avatar
    Posted by Chrystal Mon Nov 30, 2009 1:08pm PST

    I beg a differ, I have wasted my life on many different men, knowing that there is no such thing as the perfect partner. With this concept in mind I have forgotten what I was looking for in a man. And then unexpectedly I found him. He is everything I could ever dream of, he has reminded me that there are actually good people in this world and that I can be a better person myself. He is the true love that i never thought I could find.

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