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Monday, December 28, 2009

i dont know what to do

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well ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and back in june 2009 i found out he cheated on me and he told me he did after i told him i already knew about it well i was pregant when i found out about an i already have a 2 year old little boy and my boyfriend has been there since my son was born because the real father dont want to step and be a man well like i still get the feeling he still cheats on me said he's not but im really not sure...so what should i do i love him but i just dont feel happy anymore and my son calls him daddy i dont want to take my son away from he has a 5 year old little girl and i see her on the weekends only because her moms has her.and her mom dont treat her all that well.so when i have her on the weekend i treat her like she is my very own child and my son calls her sissy so if there is anybody that can give me some advice please do so
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  • netondomu's Avatar
    Posted by netondomu Fri Nov 6, 2009 10:57pm PST

    I'd tell you to dump him.No man who cheats on you is worth keeping.You've established a relationship with this guy's daughter and don't want to break it off;just because you break up with the man doesn't mean you need to cut off ties with the daughter.You can create open lines of communication with the child and still be there for her.Just get rid of the guy.

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    Posted by Janet Fri Nov 6, 2009 11:18pm PST

    I'm really sorry you have to experience such dishonesty...but you need to consider what is important for you and your child?

    Unfortunately....you may have to be lonely for awhile but it is in your best interest to do what's best for you...now!

    There is always someone else who will treat you better...You may not think so now...but in the end...you will be glad you had the courage to stand up for yourself.

    I wish you the best of luck...but don't delay...it will only get harder the longer you wait to rid yourself of this cheater.

    And...if your instincts tell you your guy is cheating... Then trust your gut...Because your instinct is always correct. Bet on it!

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