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Thursday, December 10, 2009

I need advice.

Okay,

I was supposed to meet this guy up to go do something tonight, right? well, he tells me at the last minute that he just got off work (8:30 p.m.). I really would have appreciated it if he would have told me something a little earlier...maybe that he might be working late? This isn't the first time this has happened though..he claims that he wants to get to know me, but something just always comes up. how convenient. I gave up twisting my schedule around for his no shows a while back ago...but what i'm asking is, why is he doing this? I haven't really complained once about it...although i have said i wasn't happy with the end result of tonight. I really would like to get to know him too, but not if it is this complicated to get him to hang out for just thirty minutes.
I just need advice although I guess I already know what the answer could be :/ but what can it hurt?

<3

M
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  • Christina's Avatar
    Posted by Christina Wed Jul 23, 2008 9:26pm PDT

    maybe he is shy or does have to work

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  • girly88's Avatar
    Posted by girly88 Wed Jul 23, 2008 9:33pm PDT

    I think he's making up excuses.

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  • Christina's Avatar
    Posted by Christina Wed Jul 23, 2008 9:41pm PDT

    tru that might be it too

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  • steve's Avatar
    Posted by steve Wed Jul 23, 2008 9:46pm PDT

    from a male stand point;hes got a women at home tht he gots to take care of read between tha lines i bet he dosent answer every time you call n he gives u certain tymes to call

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  • past pleasures's Avatar
    Posted by past pleasures Thu Jul 24, 2008 6:52am PDT

    He is probably married. Run away before your heart gets broken....

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  • past pleasures's Avatar
    Posted by past pleasures Thu Jul 24, 2008 6:54am PDT

    Michigan?

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  • Darla W's Avatar
    Posted by Darla W Thu Jul 24, 2008 7:22am PDT

    you know its plan and simple never wait a second time on a man tell him either you do or you dont want to get to know me and that you dont play games life is too short and your time is important and you dont plan to spend it waiting around on a man if he is really that into you he will get the message and maybe next time you make plans if he hasnt called and he is late pick up and go out with your friends or by yourself and show him you mean business enough with the users he is prob married

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  • iris's Avatar
    Posted by iris Thu Jul 24, 2008 10:56am PDT

    that happened to me last nite,he cancelled last minute, that was not cool,then i called him to ask him what was going on he said he worked late and wasn't feeling good he claims he called me @6:00 5x i don't think so because i was home all day and nite. i pupose i know what to do, "let him go".

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  • who cares's Avatar
    Posted by who cares Fri Jul 25, 2008 12:02am PDT

    run, don't walk away...this guy is married or at the very least has a partner. Protect yourself and your heart.

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