And he was ummm... pleasuring himself!
This is just too weird! He's a really sweet guy, and I love him a lot, but I don't know if I can handle this.
I know this sort of thing doesn't necessarily mean he's gay, but the guy I fell in love with was A GUY! I'm not sure that I can respect anybody who gets his jollies from wearing my undies, and, frankly, I feel kind of violated. I had to throw out a really cute bra & panty set - I just couldn't see myself ever wearing them again.
Am I overreacting?
ED NOTE: See also "How do you feel about MANTIES?"
I need advice: Caught my boyfriend wearing my bra and panties!
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Posted by Thu Jun 12, 2008 8:14am PDT
Report AbuseNo ur not. Thats just weird. I would have done the same thing.
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Posted by Thu Jun 12, 2008 8:19am PDT
Report AbuseThere's a fine line between the guy grossing you out and creeping you out. Gross we can handle most of the time. Creepy just has to go. I'd ask him why he did that and if this is going to be/or has been a thing he does. Love isn't the only part of a relationship. If this is his "normal" and you are uncomfortable with it, I'd let him go.
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Posted by Thu Jun 12, 2008 8:57am PDT
Report AbuseWow. I think you are going to have to love him in a different way now. As a friend. He obviously has some fetish he hasn't told you about. I wouldn't be able to look at him the same way, so my feelings would have died a bit the moment I saw that! You are not overreacting!
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Posted by Thu Jun 12, 2008 9:04am PDT
Report AbuseHaha that is funny! It is a fetish dear. Why did you throw them out? You let him put his penis in you right? Same diff. I say bust out the whip! Let him be him because if you let him do what turns him on he will let you do what turns you on. Be kinky! Have fun with it!
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Posted by Thu Jun 12, 2008 9:14am PDT
Report AbuseIf it makes you uncomfortable there's not much you can do. If you really want to, you can try to understand it and work things out with him...agree that he'll do it in private (out of sight out of mind, right?) or if it truly grosses you out beyond your limits, then you kind of know the other option.
I'd have the same reaction as you, it's just weird.
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Posted by Thu Jun 12, 2008 9:14am PDT
Report AbuseAlthough this is weird, i would suggest you talk to him..er.. ask if all's well with him and what he finds fascinating in doing what he did and why??
i am sure it cant be that bad! i mean, everyone has a different flavour for themselves!! my hubby wears my sexy nighty to make me laugh and get me in the mood..but ofcourse..just once in a blue moon...
i agree with Misty. why throw it away?? no reason u cant wash it and gift it TO HIM !! :) hahaha gud luck.
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Posted by Thu Jun 12, 2008 9:15am PDT
Report AbuseI fully agree with Misty Rae hahaha, embrace your inner fetishes. =D
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Posted by Thu Jun 12, 2008 9:18am PDT
Report AbuseGross! I say leave him alone because now you can't even look at him the same way. and your going to always wonder is he on the down low??? jus be friends!
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Posted by Thu Jun 12, 2008 9:28am PDT
Report AbuseDon't judge the man for a fetish!! Of course, I wouldn't judge you if it was a fetish you couldn't handle, that's your call, but I'm a firm believer that we all have something "weird" that makes us horny. Judging him for it will only make him less willing to open up to you... not just sexually, either.
Personally, I think you sort of violated him back by posting his sexual interest on a public blog. I'm sure he didn't give you permission to (ahem) expose him like this.
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