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Monday, November 30, 2009

I need advice: Do you have to be married to consider a threesome?

SO MY BF BROUGHT UP THAT HE WANTS A THREESOME AND TOLD ME I COULD CHOOSE THE PERSON (FEMALE), YOU KNOW SOMEONE I'M COMFORTABLE WITH. I'M UP FOR IT SINCE OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN BASED ON PLEASING EACH OTHER BUT I WAS READING A BLOG ON HERE AND MOST COMMENTS REFERRED TO MARRIED COUPLES, DOES IT REALLY MATTER IF YOU'RE MARRIED OR NOT??

[ED NOTE: Also see "I need advice: He Wants a Threesome"]
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  • *dn13L*'s Avatar
    Posted by *dn13L* Wed May 7, 2008 7:12am PDT

    Thanks everyone for your comments, hope you guys keep posting more, as far as the post above, we are serious, we're getting married in a couple of years after i'm done with school...

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  • PORKCHOP's Avatar
    Posted by PORKCHOP Wed May 7, 2008 12:57pm PDT

    Doesnt matter is your married or not.. a threesome is sad and a pathetic way to please your cheater. Because he will... wait and see.

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  • Michael S's Avatar
    Posted by Michael S Wed May 7, 2008 1:07pm PDT

    Would your bf fill the same way you do if you made a threesome with another guy??????

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  • Sunflower's Avatar
    Posted by Sunflower Wed May 7, 2008 1:08pm PDT

    Make sure that you set guidelines.. Enjoy...

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  • Ivana's Avatar
    Posted by Ivana Wed May 7, 2008 1:08pm PDT

    3some is sick..if u 2 love each other

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  • deroty d's Avatar
    Posted by deroty d Wed May 7, 2008 1:10pm PDT

    what does any of this have to do with the infield fly rule?

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  • 's Avatar
    Posted by Wed May 7, 2008 1:12pm PDT

    what is it that is missing in your relationship that requires someone else to fill in the void?...perhaps a little more insight and understanding of what the relationship really is would be warranted. People use terms like 'relationship" very easily these days, when it reall is nothing more thatn an aquaintence that youo spend alot of time with...real realtionship require work, understanding and an acceptance of the needs of each other, as long as they do not overide the needs of the other...saying you are OK with something or can deal with it...does not mean it is the right thing or that it will fulfill what is missing because it is the thought of the moment...a relationship should be a little deeper and more meaningful than " i'm bored with our sex life...let add a third person!!!"...

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  • Zazu's Avatar
    Posted by Zazu Wed May 7, 2008 1:17pm PDT

    of course NOT...a threesome is either 2 guys and a girl, or 2 girls and a guy. Just be sure you're not going to be jealous when you see your guy with the other girl making out, etc. And he probably wants you and the other girl to get "into it"...

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  • Moosh Mooshy's Avatar
    Posted by Moosh Mooshy Wed May 7, 2008 1:18pm PDT

    i think society has cheapened sex so much that people can just consider letting 3rd parties into such a beautiful thing.

    in my opinion, i think you are better off NOT married to him. why would you even ask that? you obviously do not know what marriage is (2 people and that is it). you seem a little immature and influenced too much by your LAME bf. you should really think about how it makes you feel (probably cheap and not good enough; why would be ask you anyway?)

    that is my 2 cents

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  • adriana c's Avatar
    Posted by adriana c Wed May 7, 2008 1:19pm PDT

    I think its a bad idea if your in a serious relationship or you love this guy. I mean its still being unfaithful regardless if he is watching. Not only is he unfaithful to you but you to him. Call me prude, but i would never do it.

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