I need advice: Do you have to be married to consider a threesome?

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  Posted by boogyman1 Wed May 14, 2008 3:55pm PDT

  no it doesn't matter married couples would have problems with these kinds of things because they might think that you were satisfied by someone else now thats a problem.

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  Posted by Southernbelle1270 Wed May 14, 2008 4:27pm PDT

  I do not think that you have to be married. It is more a question of how strong your relationship is. Granted threesome is not my cup of tea but each person has their preferences and their own opinions. I say think about it long and hard before you do it. If you are not comfortable with it then I would not consider it. Just my two cents.

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  Posted by happily married Wed May 14, 2008 5:44pm PDT

  I think a threesome is so wrong if your with someone married or not. Making love is between 2 people in my opinion. If you want a threesome watch some porn together and leave it as a fantasy. Loving someone is about pleasing the other person it is sad that some people have to resort to such fantasies that are so unreal. If two people are together both partners should respect each others bodies. After all in my opinion sex is unity for two people to share and to become one flesh.

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  Posted by happily married Wed May 14, 2008 5:45pm PDT

  I think a threesome is so wrong if your with someone married or not. Making love is between 2 people in my opinion. If you want a threesome watch some porn together and leave it as a fantasy. Loving someone is about pleasing the other person it is sad that some people have to resort to such fantasies that are so unreal. If two people are together both partners should respect each others bodies. After all in my opinion sex is unity for two people to share and to become one flesh.

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  Posted by kittywink Wed May 14, 2008 8:53pm PDT

  you don't have to be married but you do have to be an adulterer. Sick, and really unfaithful to each other.

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  Posted by Tee Fri May 16, 2008 8:21pm PDT

  Don't do it!!!! I have a friend who had a threesome and boy did it cause problems. He was more interested in his girls friend than his own girl and it ended in a big fight. No they were not married and you don't have to be but, if you satisfy one another then theres no need for a threesome. Thats just your mans way of cheating on you with your consent. Do Not fall for it!!!

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  Posted by Bill Thu Oct 23, 2008 12:51pm PDT

  It is probably a bad idea, married or not. My wife and I had a threesome with another woman before we were married(15 years ago) and there wasn't really a problem with that. Earlier this year she surprised me by wanting a threesome with a guy she knew. I went along to get along, but it did cause problems. We only did it twice, but months later I still think about her being with him - it's hard to get out of your head!! Things are better now, but it took a while. I wouldn't do it again.

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  Posted by meldorr Sun Nov 16, 2008 5:15pm PST

  I don't think you have to be married, it doesn't matter if you are married or not, my husband and I have done it, you just have to set ground rules, know that you are not looking for a new partner just sex. you have to set some ground rules first. The husband and I stick to the following rules:

  1. we both have to agree on the person, timing, everything

  2. if either of us is uncomfortable with the person, or situation, we stop immediately.

  3. we never seperate frm each other, always stay in same room, for safety sake

  4. always use protection.

  If you guys really love each other it can work. It doesn't demean your relationship at all. It becomes cheating when you start lying, and sneaking around. I don't care what anyone says we all have fantasies, and this is a way for two people who love each other to fullfill each others fantasies. You can try a girl first for him, then if you enjoy it, you can later try it with another guy for you.

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  Posted by Kat Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:31am PST

  If you don't know the answer to that, you should keep your zipper zipped.

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  Posted by Alex Thu Jun 25, 2009 6:50pm PDT

  well it depends on how old you are and if there is love and trust also why does he need someone else there if he has you

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