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  Posted by ASC Mon Jul 7, 2008 4:16am PDT

  Its not like youre asking him to marry you or anything, email him and ask your question. I would start off by saying "Hi, it was so good to see you, glad youre doing well. shen you have a few minutes, i was wondering if you could tell me (whatever it is you want to know).

  then end the email with something like i regret that things ended badly, thats not what i wanted, i hope we can put it behind us and be friends.

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  Posted by sshields69 Mon Jul 7, 2008 4:16am PDT

  Been there, let it go....IF (and thats a big IF) you two were to get back together, you would only be used by him. YOU deserve better.

  Good things come to those who wait.

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  Posted by colleennizbut Mon Jul 7, 2008 4:27am PDT

  I know how it feels but try and move on - you are special and deserve someone who loves you!!!Like yourself and don't chase him - if it is meant to be it will come- trust the universe

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  Posted by anny Mon Jul 7, 2008 4:39am PDT

  Why dont you let things be the way they are? Pestering him cheapens you, and his new love wouldn't give you a chance

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  Posted by snowpuff72 Mon Jul 7, 2008 4:41am PDT

  You need to let him go because it sounds as though he doesn't appreciate seeing you very much and he's moved on and wondering what your problem is by insisting on being friendly. If he is angry with you you're just setting yourself up to be used and hurt by him or even just riddiculed. I never understood why people who break up insist on being thought of in a positive light anyway it's a little selfish.Take the hint he's giving.

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  Posted by Maria T Mon Jul 7, 2008 4:43am PDT

  I'm going through the same thing right now, it seems really hard to move on but you have to. He has gotten on with his life(new girlfriend) try to get on with yours. I know it is hard not to call him but stay strong. Good things will happen to you and if it was meant to be it will happen.

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  Posted by ruby Mon Jul 7, 2008 5:28am PDT

  Been there. I know how hard it is, but leave it alone. You will end up looking like a desperate fool, no matter what spin you put on it, friendship, curiosity, bla, bla bla, all will know what you are up to. The best way to get him out of your head is to focus on yourself. I did things like started a strict exercise program, re-vamped my entire wardrobe, took some calsses, the best revenge is living well, so the next time you run into him he won't believe how HOT you are. Mind you he will probably not call or want you back, but he will think twice about having you! And a great bonus your new confidence will attract TONS of great guys.

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  Posted by donne_bree Mon Jul 7, 2008 10:11am PDT

  i think that it will b ok if u talk 2 ur ex

  i think he will b glad 2 here how u r doin mayb if u tell him how u feel him will respond with a good answer

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  Posted by Lori W Mon Jul 7, 2008 10:13am PDT

  EMAIL HIM!!! It's the only way your gonna know how he feels or how he is doing. If you don't hear back from him, he's moved on & life is great. I totally know how you feel, my ex and are the same way. But he and I have been split up for about 5 years. Good luck!

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  Posted by Kaitlin B Mon Jul 7, 2008 10:19am PDT

  Go for it girl.... its the only way u will get over him is if you talk to him and get everything out and have a closure and you feel 10 X better after!! good luck

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