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  Posted by Big Sexy Tue Jul 1, 2008 5:04am PDT

  Are you serious!!!!! 2 years of fighting and still your relationship is messed up? Now you foot the bill and she has the nerves to be cheating on you or at best talking to friend about it. You should tell her..." Don't let the door hit you, where the good Lord split you." Kick her ungrateful butt out to the streets. After you have sex one last time and then pay her $10.00 for a good time.

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  Posted by Lou "Bopps" Tue Jul 1, 2008 5:41am PDT

  Sounds like you are enabling her, the be a total ho.

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  Posted by mz_reeder_1727 Tue Jul 1, 2008 6:03am PDT

  Sweetie u should kick her butt out, If u taking care of her and she anit doing nuthin but layin her butt around and you paying all the bill's..... I think you need to do whats best for you. You to good for her if she can't expect something good right in front of her then she crazy but that my advice. I hope u make the right choice

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  Posted by ks Tue Jul 1, 2008 6:18am PDT

  As a valuable person, you must respect and value yourself. Don't let anyone including her use you.

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  Posted by DeanyC Tue Jul 1, 2008 6:21am PDT

  I feel your pain. I can tell you really love this chick but baby things are going to get worse before they get better. If you really love her try to talk her into gettng some counseling, actually both of you should seek counseling if you really want the relationship to work. Two years of lies and cheating OH I'm sorry 1 yr and 8 mnths, and you believe she is the one with a problem? I know it is hard when you love a person with everything you have inside of you, but somewhere, somewhere deep inside of you. YOU need to find out how to start loving YOU too.

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  Posted by DeanyC Tue Jul 1, 2008 6:21am PDT

  I feel your pain. I can tell you really love this chick but baby things are going to get worse before they get better. If you really love her try to talk her into gettng some counseling, actually both of you should seek counseling if you really want the relationship to work. Two years of lies and cheating OH I'm sorry 1 yr and 8 mnths, and you believe she is the one with a problem? I know it is hard when you love a person with everything you have inside of you, but somewhere, somewhere deep inside of you. YOU need to find out how to start loving YOU too.

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  Posted by tjam0499 Tue Jul 1, 2008 6:30am PDT

  thanks everyone for your advice i really do appreciate it just to add a point... she is in nursing school and work on weekends, so she always studying which is her excuse as to why she dont have time for anything and i ride with it cause in school i was real busy and she stayed with me, but then she can go in the room and talk for 30-45 mins and i be like well what the heck you do for the 4 hours you home when im not here cause the house never clean cause she claims she always studying

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  Posted by ashleyc1129 Tue Jul 1, 2008 8:20am PDT

  You seem like a nice guy and I hate to tell you this but she is using you! You need to kick her out cause she is cheating on you maybe not physically but emotionally she is and she doesn't care aout how you feel.

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  Posted by MistressMinx _ Tue Jul 1, 2008 8:28am PDT

  Time for her to hit the road. After 2 years if you're still arguing, its time to go, but now she is keeping secrets from you? Run!!!

  Or, pack her stuff and boot her to the street.

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  Posted by jessiefay28 Tue Jul 1, 2008 8:30am PDT

  I knw u luv her but u need to let her go! She is just using u ! Then when she doesn't have u then maybe she will realize what she really had,but don't waste ur time on a realtionship that is going no where! U need to do whats best 4 u stop being her door mat!

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