I need advice: My boyfriend wants too much sex!

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  Posted by Ally Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:59am PDT

  You need to make him realize that 4-5 times a day/ everyday is excessive. Every now and then I can see, but if he wants 4-5 times a day 7 days a week and is still not satisfied that boy needs counseling because I'd have to say he is suffering from addiction.

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  Posted by CrystalG Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:00am PDT

  oookkkaayyy! now this is just my opinion. I think that the only way he feels validation or that he can show affection is by having sex with u. it shows affection and makes u feel good and if u look at it like i do, anybody can have sex but can u see the relationship working without sex ask yourself that question.

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  Posted by CrystalG Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:00am PDT

  oookkkaayyy! now this is just my opinion. I think that the only way he feels validation or that he can show affection is by having sex with u. it shows affection and makes u feel good and if u look at it like i do, anybody can have sex but can u see the relationship working without sex ask yourself that question.

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  Posted by JuiceL Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:21am PDT

  First of all, it's not even that healthy for a man to have so much sex, contrary to popular belief. I would worry that he has an addiction or Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and ask him to seek counseling. For you, set boundaries. Tell him exactly what you are willing to give and that you can't take it so much. That doesn't mean you are cheating, it means you are being honest about taking care of yourself and your own body.

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  Posted by erica Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:23am PDT

  More to a relationship than sex....although that is a big part of my 10 year marriage, we still go strong at a healthy 5-6 times a week. The amount you are talking about I wonder how you have time for anything else....lol

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  Posted by Gg Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:31am PDT

  I am a healthcare provider. He has a sexual addiction. It would not surprise me if his childhood was troubled. You need to realize that no matter what you do, he will always feel insecure (because this issue is not about you, its about him). I would suggest having a "heart to heart" talk with him and saying that in order for you to stay in the relationship you would like to go to professional counseling (that is if you really want a solution).

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  Posted by iniobong Mon Apr 28, 2008 7:36am PDT

  well it all depends on you, if you want it but, if not try and stop him, because everything depends on how you startedFor me i dont like too much sex.

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  Posted by Jamila Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:33am PDT

  O M G ! Grrrrl, what have you gotten on your hands!? It sounds as if you love this man, by hey that dude need to take it down a notch. Maybe you could try buying him one of those little sex sleeves. I saw them on an info-mercial late night. And NO you wont have to worry about him not want you either cause everyone knows aint nothing like the real thang baby. Never been in a situation such as extreme as yours but it's just a suggestion. SMILE.

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  Posted by ddddm Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:48am PDT

  so how old are you an your boyfriend?

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  Posted by allee Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:54am PDT

  I only wish I had your problem. My sex life is the complete opposite. Enjoy great sex when you can, one day it might not be there....

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