So there's this guy... (I know I know lol) He's the guy I
should tell myself "he's just not that into you" but
I still have hope that there could be something there.
We have met up on a few occasions and we get along but as far as
anything more than going out and hooking up, I don't see a
chance of that happening.
I've talked to him about a possible relationship but he always
gives me the excuse that he wants to get to know eachother better,
that we shouldn't rush into anything. Which yes is a very good
idea. But he doesn't actually try to get to know me outside of
my bed, my couch or my floor. The difficult thing for me is that
I'm basically addicted to what he does to me in those areas
(the best I've had) I keep trying to tell myself that I should
just enjoy myself, enjoy what he can give me (multiples) and relax
otherwise. This has been going on for about 4 months now.
So I guess my real problem is, how do I get my mindset of wanting
more out of my head and just enjoy the company of my beni-friend?
I need an opinion...
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Posted by Wed May 27, 2009 7:21pm PDT
Report Abusehe doesn't want to know you. he just wants sex. and as long as you are giving it to him, that's all you are going to get. see this for what it is, a hook up, nothing more, nothing less. you deserve more than being used for sex when he is bringing nothing to the table. time to move on and find someone that deserves you for you, not just for the sex.
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Posted by Thu May 28, 2009 4:17pm PDT
Report Abusei'd say tell him how you feel. from there on if you see he is putting forth an effort to get to know you, then hey you got what you wanted... but if not take it for what it is "friends w/ benifits relationship". if you dont want just a sexual relationship and he's not offering more, maybe you should ditch him! or keeping him and continue searching :) couldnt hurt
xoxo wild child!
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Posted by Wed Jun 17, 2009 7:18am PDT
Report AbuseHe only wanted no strings attached relationship and that means no commitments, no responsibilties. What a load of crap about not rushing into it and getting to know each other better for he'd already rushed you into having sex with him. If he doesn't want to communicate with you, suggest you look for another guy who would meet all your needs and don't compromise, get out of it before he hurts you further. You deserve someone better than that!
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