Love + Sex

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

I need help with my man!!!

Alright well i love going downtown on my guy, i know some women do not like it, but i love it!
but the thing is, i have NEVER seen him ejaculate.
It is kind of weird.
i mean i can tell that he is really enjoying himself but there have been 30-40 min periods and there's just nothing.
I thought it was me so i did all that i could to get to the "best of my abilities", a.k.a. looking up techniques, but still nothing...
I asked him about the whole situation and he said that i was doing great and that it just takes time but is 30 minutes reasonable?
could there be something else that i could be doing to make this a shorter process? I mean, i really don't mind, but i wonder if its normal...help?

Syndication:

From the Community…

Comments 1-5 of 5
  • Crystal's Avatar
    Posted by Crystal Thu Oct 23, 2008 2:37pm PDT

    I know the feeling! My husband is the same way and can have me down there forever. It just takes some guys longer than others to finish. Consider yourself lucky. Some guys can ejaculate at the very thought! LOL I thought I might be doing something wrong until I asked my hubby and he said exactly what your man did. You can always learn more and if he feels comfortable telling you exactly what he wants- go for it.

    Report Abuse
  • Tara's Avatar
    Posted by Tara Thu Oct 23, 2008 2:49pm PDT

    Everyone's different. Some men will never orgasm from oral attention. That's just the way it is.

    My husband saw something on a movie once though and invited me to try it. It worked for him, finally, after years of whatever else! And it only takes a cupple minutes now! LOL!

    Okay, so you want to know exactly what he taught me. How can I say such things in a publicly acceptable way? Screw it! Twist as you stroke, hum as you slobber, and run your tounge all the way around now and then. Now try to do it all at once!

    Like I said, though everyone's different. Tell him about something you'd like him to try and then ask him what he knows that you could try.

    Report Abuse
  • dmsad's Avatar
    Posted by dmsad Thu Oct 23, 2008 2:56pm PDT

    When me and my guy just got together I would be going down on him until my jaw was tired but he would never cum. He would just let me go until I was tired and then we would get to the penetrating. One day I just decided to not stop at all, I worked it and worked it until he finally cane, when I checked it was exactly 45 minutes, and every time after that its been 45 minutes. For some men it just takes a longer time, some really cant even cum by just getting head so it just depends on your man, its normal, quit fretting...

    Report Abuse
  • Terry M's Avatar
    Posted by Terry M Thu Oct 23, 2008 3:03pm PDT

    I know that I've had some guys who take a long time, some take no time at all and others cum in under a minuet..but ask your guy, some guys just can cum that way, another blog on here a lady was wondering why her guy didn't cum inside her but would cum when she went downtown...lol...Men! who understands them anyway?

    Report Abuse
  • Jack's Avatar
    Posted by Jack Thu Oct 23, 2008 3:06pm PDT

    What Tara said true! My GF. started that one night, and it drove me up the wall!!!!

    Report Abuse
Comments 1-5 of 5

leave your comment

You must sign in to post a comment

Sign In for personalized information

New User? Sign Up

Love Byte

Skip the multiple-choice quiz, and read up on if you're a mom, a nag, too clingy, or perfect in every way. Aren't we all?