I Wanna Snoop, Baby

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  Posted by Miss March Thu Sep 10, 2009 6:35pm PDT

  i've snooped....if you snoop, make sure ur ready for whatever you may find...

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  Posted by opiniononly Thu Sep 10, 2009 6:38pm PDT

  No, no, no...I won't snoop...Hell, I've never even put anything away in his dresser after all these years together. No justification to go snooping through his stuff or his electronics. I've never gone through his wallet, his brief case, scrolled through his cell phone address book or message log, hacked into his email, read open mail addressed only to him or nosed around anything else that isn't mine. If I want information, I just ask...and he answers.

  Our relationship is transparent and built on trust and open communication. He has never given me reason to be suspicious or think he is hiding anything and while he grins at my level of respect for his privacy, he also doesn't care if I do look at anything of his. I have what is apparently an amazing lack of curiousity about private spaces that aren't MY private spaces.

  Works for us.

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  Posted by Machete Betty Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:27pm PDT

  I agree with Miss March. If you snoop be prepared for what you may find and you should also consider what it is in the relationship that makes you want to snoop.

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  Posted by js Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:31pm PDT

  i do, not often but everything listed above is fu_ked up what those ppl did to their wives,please leave ladies NOW

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  Posted by trustme69 Thu Sep 10, 2009 9:08pm PDT

  Why would one want to look for something that will hurt their feelings.... be prepared for what you find

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  Posted by Dave Thu Sep 10, 2009 9:08pm PDT

  Why snoop when you trust that person?lose thier trust you lost everthing

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  Posted by alle Thu Sep 10, 2009 10:21pm PDT

  I soo want to get his email password!!!!!!

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  Posted by None Fri Sep 11, 2009 5:22am PDT

  Curiosity is human nature, we all do it, BUT, if you find something you wish you hadn't seen, and know you can't control your feelings, don't do it, but IDK everyone should respect ones privacy, but at the same time, you're like oh well, but if you don't have that attitude and see a call from some chick who ends up being a cousin, but you go ballistic before you get down to it, then you are at fault.

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  Posted by Ashley Fri Sep 11, 2009 5:50am PDT

  I have checked my boyfriends phone, not daily but every once in awhile. There is never anything there that would make me continue to check it, but I think now it's more out of habit than it is suspision. He does not have a email account, no facebook or myspace... I trust him; but with all the TV shows, radio shows and the hype with men cheating, women always have "What if" in the back of their minds, no matter how much you trust your man!

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  Posted by Georgette Fri Sep 11, 2009 6:48am PDT

  i would have to say that first snooping is very bad cause he will feel like u don't trust him and most likely will erase everything that might cause a doubt second if your are snooping there is a reason but i would say it will not lead in to something promising and most likely when that conversation comes up it most likely the relationship is doomed!

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