I Want My Baby Back

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  Posted by ms.dayandnight Fri Nov 27, 2009 12:56am PST

  I`m going to read your blog. I will be back and by the way like your name:)

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  Posted by Robert Fri Nov 27, 2009 1:27am PST

  If that's the only reason she left, then that's stupid. All you can do is try and explain . If you can't reach her then let her go. It's hard but you have to, never loose her mind over a woman.

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  Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Fri Nov 27, 2009 2:17am PST

  There are so many other women out there who would really like to meet you, but they never will because you are worried about someone who isn't thinking about you. You better go enjoy your life and stop waiting for people because time is precious and breathing is a gift.

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  Posted by ms.dayandnight Fri Nov 27, 2009 2:35am PST

  OK! I read your blog about you f-up your 1tear relationship and I just first want to express how I feel about the situation and first, I just want to say WOW! also I feel your pain so I hope that I can be some sort of help. I use to go through my ex phone all the time and when some women see certain things that are not present on a daily like in the household we FLIP. Your girl is probably mad that the flicks was saved to a folder and us women analyze alot more than men and she probably thinking that you two had sex and probably thinking about other situations that you two have been in, or dealing with,so I say all this to say that maybe you should leave messages on her phone, contact her FAMILY members just to c how she doing,I would not contact friends of hers because women think funny things @ times and the current situation that is @ hand will make matters worst, I also would like to say that you should still save the ring. The idea can be put on hold so, never wipe it out of your mind, and know that no matter where this ship goes know that you did love,+ will love again, and was willing more than alot of other men.Also do not beat your self up ppl come into our life for a reason and sometime a season only so who`s to say if your honest here maybe this is just some payback s- from way back,so give it sometime because it could be a test she is sending you through or a test from higher up, and remember if it is meant to b it will come back, and look @ it on the bright side @ least you know what not to do,and can def love someone else just as much if not more when you get back out there, speaking of getting back out there pls do not get into a rebound relationship because I think that it will only make matters for you and the other party worst, so I hope I helped you in some kind of way esp. for your well being. Also if all fails just stay prayful.I do think that you should continue to call but do not come off as a bug a boo.

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  Posted by Gina Fri Nov 27, 2009 4:26am PST

  Something to think about, why did she check your mail? why is she so untrusting? why did she feel it necessary to do that? Have you done anything to make her mistrust you, I dont know many who are just going to hack into someones mail for the heck of it. Believe me I know. Trust is golden if you dont have it, its pretty much already over

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  Posted by urassismine2 Fri Nov 27, 2009 8:37am PST

  Okay,..Here it is..She is immature,..."IF"...What your talking about, alone,..caused her to walk away, from you. She was already suspicious of your behavior, if she went into something that you,..left open, to begin with. You were asking to be caught! The idea that your co-worker would go so far as to send you "naked pictures", says that there was some "prior" instigation with her, on the job,..which created an atmosphere , in "her mind",..that you and she were cool enough to continue on a path toward you..screwing around with her,..on your girlfriend. She ain't dupid! You didn't so much mess up, as much as you didn't think that your secret behavior wouldn't follow you wherever you go....and you got caught risking your own emotional health, and your relationship. She rightfully thought that your intentions with her, had shown thier real selves, and there was no more need to waste her time and emotions dealing with an untrustworthy individual,..like you...Now,...you want some sympathy from these other women on shine, who might be dumb enough to fall into that gap of logic, like your co-worker did....just a thought,..player...get better at ya game, partna...

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  Posted by Jacob Fri Nov 27, 2009 8:51am PST

  One screw it if she dont wanna talk to you an hear you out then shi isnt worth it.

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  Posted by A.J. Fri Nov 27, 2009 9:28am PST

  i'v ben thare thar is alot of good stuf in these emailes you have to read betwen the lines .it is a trust thing you must of gave her a reason to not trust you.or she has ben hert before .good luck. if she loves u she will come back.but i think you sead its ben 1 year she has moor lickly moved on.and you shud to .be more trufull nex time bro.............ajv :)

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  Posted by Queen C. Fri Nov 27, 2009 10:12am PST

  Ms.DayandNight was so on point! I totally agree...with EVERYTHING

  Yall check out my blogs by Queen C. titled " s---!!!" (hint)

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  Posted by Gigi Fri Nov 27, 2009 11:59am PST

  WHy would she have been checking your emails if everything was so great? Obviously there were problems in your relationship that caused her to not trust you. If she really loved you, she would accept your explanation (if it really is the truth) and get back together with you because women are very forgiving creatures. I think there's more to the story than you let on and that's why she took this opportunity to leave you.

  Anyways, good luck

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