these are the types of friends i cared too much about, the
people i am done with
1) friends who go out with guys you used to talk to
2) friends who with hold the truth and run away like cowards
3) friends who leave you hanging when you need them the most
4) friends who take out their problems on you (and you have no idea
whats going on til later)
5) friends you used to talk to drunk txt you while with said ex-
friend
6) friends who lie when you ask them a honest question, and later
find out the truth
7) friends who withhold knowledge of baby bumps and or the
paternity
8) friends who you set at a different standard at a dispoint you in
the end (my bad)
9) friends you like and shouldn't until they tell you they like
you after they have dated your friend
10) friends that decide to blame their problems on you and blow you
off
11) friends who you let take over you because there is nothing else
going on
12) friends that are not really your friends at all because how can
they be when they can not seem to climb over the wall you have
built up for so long and it is a good thing to because all you get
from them is bad things.
the point is i have some extra baggage i have been
carrying with me for so long, these people that hurt and that put
me in uncomfortable situations make me imbalanced. maybe i gave
them the benefit of a doubt one too many times or maybe i
was living in a dream world when it came to them in my
llife, i know i deserve better than that. i know i did wrong in
letting them complicate my life in such a big way by caring too
much about their problems. yes i let people continue to poke, dent,
prode, and pollute me with their lives but, these friends i speak
of were not truly friends because how can you do these things
without thinking of this person you are about to hurt? how can you
date, kiss, sleep with, or lie behind your friends back? the one
person who never believed you were worthless, a joke, not in need
of a real family, or a good friend, someone who still believes you
could be happy even when at the end of the day they are not there
to witness it.
i was the girl who cared too much
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Posted by Sun Nov 29, 2009 10:46pm PST
Report AbuseSounds like you do care too much, but there's nothing wrong with that, you just need to be more cautious about who you care for. I did it too, but then you realize that all these so-called friends seem to do is monopolize the conversation with things that matter to them and what's in it for them. What about what may be bothering you or your feelings? You're much better off not having those people in your life. Believe me, you may feel like you have no friends after letting all these people go, but you'll soon see who are your "real" friends. No one should cross that boyfriend line, lie to you, hurt you or use you. Karma will bite them in the ass one day & they'll see what they did eventually. But by that time, you'll have way moved on & be much happier without them!
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Posted by Sun Nov 29, 2009 11:07pm PST
Report AbuseYea I've been through this crap before too many times, only difference being I'm a male. Thankfully, I saw the light and got rid of these people. Just make sure you have confidence in yourself and always remember your family has got your back friends won't always be there for you. Many will just use you then leave you. I know how you feel honey. Hope you heal and overcome all these jackoffs. Much luck & wish you luck.
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Posted by Sun Dec 6, 2009 5:04pm PST
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