I'm Jealous! What should I Do?

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  Posted by Big Ron Thu May 14, 2009 5:21pm PDT

  Sounds like you are going to have to let him go.... if you said he could .. It's up to you though

  Good luck .... Love and Blessings BigRon

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  Posted by emma Thu May 14, 2009 5:30pm PDT

  You should make plans. It'll keep your mind off of him and prom. Plus, in a few years, you can go with him. So you'll have that to look forward to. As Big Ron said, you did say you could go. So just keep your mind off of him for the night. Plus, I"m sure you two can still text and stuff.

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  Posted by Amy Thu May 14, 2009 5:30pm PDT

  How come you didn't go with him? He is your boyfriend. I know how you feel though cause I have a friend who went to prom too with someone else and just wondering hows it going although I didn't go. Its normal to feel jealous, but since he's already going with someone he should go with her. Maybe after prom, you two should go hang out like bowling or catch a movie. Find something the two of you can enjoy together. Hope its helps.

  Amy =]

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  Posted by IHARTS-One Thu May 14, 2009 5:30pm PDT

  Never let them see you sweat.

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  Posted by a10yearpromise Thu May 14, 2009 5:33pm PDT

  Being jealous is a natural thing for us humans. It all happens to us, and depending on the situation, should we act on the jealous vibe? or let it go?

  well snoop, this is how I feel.

  Since your boyfriend and you haven't done the things you used to do in awhile, you and your lover may have the feeling that you guys just want to have fun and go out. You stepped up and told him that it was ok to go to prom. I don't know him, but he may not care if he goes to prom ever, or he takes it as a fun time to get out of the house lol.

  I think that you did right by telling him that he should go.

  now since your not jealous of the girl, and hopefully they both dont have secret feelings for each other, the situation SHOULD be fine. If you ever have any doubts about that girl, you have the right to bring it up to your boyfriend.

  It sounds like you want to go to prom yourself. Have you ever went before? Well theres two ways to look at it

  1. you only want to go because your boyfriend is going and you want to be with him there SO bad. ----------------------ask him if you can go with him. I'm should he would understand.

  2. you only want to go because he is away from you, and your acting clingly ( not saying you are lol ) ----------try making plans with your family or friends. Have some you alone time. Maybe you really need it and you don't know it lol.

  I really hope that you find something in what I said. Believe me, I'm a very jealous person and I had to learn ways to control it. Dont let your emotions control you. I hope everything goes good for you. :)

  peace

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  Posted by t3chu Sat Jun 6, 2009 12:18pm PDT

  Keep on shining. you are a superwoman.keep ya head up!

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