Love + Sex

Friday, December 4, 2009

i'm sorry, but sex is way better when

I popped a little pill daily. I didnt have to deal with the smell of latex or wait 15 mins for the spermacide film to dissolve.

I haden't had unprotected sex in so long, man I really miss that pill! I stopped becuase of the risks for ovarian and breast cancer, but after going through a few rough weeks of not feeling amorous on top of 
possibly having cervix cancer and hpv. I'm thinking why the heck not?

The last 2 nights have reminded me how spontaneous I used to be and how much I enjoyed it and how much I missed being that person.

Its like I need to pick my poison. Enjoy sex, pop a pill and deal with the percentages or get depressed, not enjoy sex, be unhappy with my partner & become distant from him.

I think its worth looking into (birth control pills). This sounds totally geeky and weird, but i'm kinda excited.

After going through all of the doctor visits and biopsys I kinda feel like if I'm on the pill again, it can bring me and my partner closer.
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  • Beth's Avatar
    Posted by Beth Mon Oct 6, 2008 8:25am PDT

    I am one of those people who can't use the pill. It makes my BP skyrocket. As soon as I go off my BP goes right back down into the normal range. I was only on the pill for about 6 months with my long term ex and I agree there is something to be said for not having to waste the time or ruin the mood. It was lovely to be ready at any moment. (Sigh) but I guess some people just have to use other forms of contraceptives

    I say with the percentages as they stand you are just as likely to get sick off the pill from a latex allergy or inserting spermicide. If you are in a long term relationship based on trust and your body can handle the pill or the ring as I'm hoping to try next. Go for it

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  • ALi mommie114@yahoo.com's Avatar
    Posted by ALi mommie114@yahoo.com Wed Oct 8, 2008 9:05pm PDT

    i totally agree wit yu ..heck yu only have 1 life to live so live it and try not to think about risk and stuff b/c the stuff u think can happen most likly wont so be prepared for other thing...lol sounds silly but it true dont stress you self hun***

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