I'm sure it's a very common situation: Boy and Girl meet, date, fall in love, Boy proposes, Girl accepts, and the two begin planning the wedding so that they can go on to live in marital bliss. But what happens when Boy is gung-ho about everything, and Girl is starting to second guess her decision to accept Boy's proposal? This, folks, is the problem I'm having. Things had been going fine for me and Boy for a while, and then I suddenly started feeling like I wanted OUT. He's changed so much since we first got together, and not all of it is good. Granted, I have also changed, not all of it good, but the things that have changed in him are really bad. Such as, he doesn't have a steady job, he makes bad financial desicions, etc. We've also come across some major things, and neither one of us really wants to compromise.
My question is this: How do I handle all of this? I'm a Christian, and I've been praying about this for quite a while. I asked God for a clear sign of whether or not Boy and I should be together, and if not, lead us to other people. But how can I KNOW in my heart what I should do? Any logical advice would be greatly appreciated.
I'm supposed to be getting married, but I'm having second thoughts...BIG TIME.
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