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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

im the other woman!! what do i do now?

im with a guy who i love sooo much, but he kept the fact that he had a girlfriend away from me!! i found out after 4mths of being with him, now its been 91/2mths of us being together. he has given me every bullsh*t excuse and a bunch of promisses about him not being happy at hm and his gonna leave her, i love him dearly but i gave him till we make a year to leave her or im gonna walk, so its only 2mths away from us making a year but im ready to end it now cause i dont see the point of waiting the last 2mths its been really stressful and honestly i dont see him leaving her (go figure)!  please help me!! what to do and how do i get out.... HELP!!!!
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  • mishelc's Avatar
    Posted by mishelc Fri Jul 24, 2009 11:11am PDT

    It's really a shame that you have given him that much time to decide if "You are worth him" Respect yourself and walk away, the pain now is better than the pain later. If you allow him to have another woman, no matter if she was there before you or after you. He will always treat you like a second-class citizen. Leave now, treat yourself to a new dress, dinner with a few close girlfriends. And call this relationship a WRAP!

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    Posted by Chelsea Fri Jul 24, 2009 6:30pm PDT

    omg same thing is happening to me except im not givin him time to leave his girl except i dont think hes going to leave her period. i found out a month after we were messing around that he had a girl, and hes still denying that he doesnt go with her anymore until today i came across his facebook and a picture of him and her were walking together. and she got pregnant by him while he was still messing around with me. my friend says im weak thats the only reason why i cant stop seeing him.

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