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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

in-laws

My husbnad and I have been separated for the last 6 months. Maybe even a little longer since my heart has been away for 2 yrs. As I said in past blogs my situation with him had change so much for the worse that I couldnt be there anymore.

But now I have a bigger issue. I want to sell the house, he promise me his half of the house and that he will sign a quit claim. Today we went for him to sign and he said that his father had said that he would put a lien on the house if i try and sell it so i dont get any money out of the house.

My in law also said he would change the locks in the house so i cant come in. He didnt pay for health insurance and now we dont have any and my daughter is who needs it the most because every year she needs check ups because she was born with a cleft. last year she had surgery and this year too.

He wants to hurt me so much, he doesnt care who he hurts along the way!!!

Right now my daugther is living with my mom, Im not getting any money from my husband now and his father had said that I wont get any money until I move out. Im pretty sure if I move out I wont get any money anyways.

Now stuck with my name in the mortgage and my husband wont sign to sell...Im tied down by this people. Im not so sure how much is just my father in law doing this or my husband or both!

I wonder if theres something I could do legally about this without having to get a divorce. After all that has happened im still not ready for it!!! But something against my father in law for all the pain and suffering and emotional distress and manipulation. He is afraid im going to audit the company, he is an accountant so im sure he has ways to hide the money. He also took my husbands name out of the company to his own name. Legally my husband has no right to the company anymore. My husband says he doesnt know but I dont know what to believe anymore.

Does someone know if theres something I can do???

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  • ♥~♥MaggieRed♥~♥'s Avatar
    Posted by ♥~♥MaggieRed♥~♥ Thu Aug 27, 2009 8:23pm PDT

    ohh girl

    you need to all on our father our lord to help you get through this stressful time .☺

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  • RAIDERS's Avatar
    Posted by RAIDERS Thu Aug 27, 2009 8:25pm PDT

    HI I JUST WANT TO SAY IM SORRY FOR OYU AND YOUR DAUGHTER. I NEVER UNDERSTAND HOW TWO PEOPLE WHO LOVED EACH OTHER ONCE STOP CARING . AND THAN THE DAUGHTER GETS HURT. I HOPE IT WILL TURN OUT GOOD.

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  • ♥~♥MaggieRed♥~♥'s Avatar
    Posted by ♥~♥MaggieRed♥~♥ Thu Aug 27, 2009 8:33pm PDT

    i meant need to call:)

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  • JoKTM's Avatar
    Posted by JoKTM Sun Aug 30, 2009 3:56pm PDT

    The person who is getting hurt the most is your daughter. Your husband is a pathetic man or he would not let this happen. Your need to go get you a lawyer. I dont undertsand how he can put a lean on your house. Basicaly he is just scaring you and it is working. You need to take control of the situation and get legal advice.

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  • lily's Avatar
    Posted by lily Sat Sep 12, 2009 5:50pm PDT

    sweetheart please get advise from an attorney, your husband can't see past you to the beautiful child he is actually hurting.. trust me honey I never in a million years thought my husband the father of our children would do the unspeakable things he did just to "get even" for "getting out". If your husband is getting hateful,vengful and bad advise from his parents you will need all the help you can get to protect both YOU and your child....the end of a marriage is hurtful,painful and sometimes deadly, it brings out such ugly and unless you pray and stay focused on the big picture of getting yourself and your child to a safe and happier place in life so that you can heal from this and begin again this will consume you. Stay strong, don't be vengeful and know that you are loved by the Lord and he will see you through... God Bless

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