Love + Sex

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

in love with him

Ok so I’m in love with this guy and he claims that he doesn't like me, in fact when I asked him if he liked this other girl he said that acutely he liked her about as much as he liked me.  So I don't know what to do anymore especially when I catch him looking at me when he doesn't think I’m looking. I’ve tried asking him out I’ve tried asking why he doesn't want to go out with me, and I’ve trying asking his friends to try and get him to ask me out, And nothing worked. So what do I do??? I need help

Syndication:

From the Community…

Comments 1-5 of 5
  • Ananada's Avatar
    Posted by Ananada Fri Nov 6, 2009 7:59pm PST

    hun, i know you might not want to hear it, but maybe he's just not intrested, i mean if he said he dosent like you like that then chances are he dosent, dont waste your time trying to get someone who dosent like you to ask you out and find someone who dose like you, and wants to ask you out,

    Report Abuse
  • Lisa's Avatar
    Posted by Lisa Fri Nov 6, 2009 8:00pm PST

    Let him go!

    Report Abuse
  • *GoldenGirl*™'s Avatar
    Posted by *GoldenGirl*™ Fri Nov 6, 2009 8:03pm PST

    Sorry to say but you cant force yourself or your love upon someone who isnt receptive of it. It wont ever work. Good Luck :)

    Report Abuse
  • urassismine2's Avatar
    Posted by urassismine2 Sat Nov 7, 2009 4:42am PST

    Nope! This situation isn't for you. Just because you see him looking at you, doesn't make you a mind reader. You have no idea what he's thinking. He may be looking at you as if "you must be crazy, if you think that I want to deal with you". Hey, this may sound harsh, but it may also be the truth. You've got plenty of time in life, so be patient with yourself.

    Report Abuse
  • Lizabeth's Avatar
    Posted by Lizabeth Sat Nov 7, 2009 7:06am PST

    the thing is I've tried letting go and it's just not leaving. and when he looks at me he smiles.i get to see him sunday. and he's like a big brother to me so it's hard to let this go when i might end up ruining our friendship. know what i mean???

    Report Abuse
Comments 1-5 of 5

leave your comment

You must sign in to post a comment

Sign In for personalized information

New User? Sign Up

Love Byte

Few things harm a relationship more than an affair. Whether the affair is emotional, a 'one night stand' or full blown, the betrayal delivers a life altering blow. Will the injury to the relationship prove fatal?