I'm trying to end a 7 year long, rocky relationship that MUST
BE STOPPED. Can you guess what HE did? He really should
get props for this one, too. He pulled out all the stops,
packed on all the bells and whistles, and started being NICE
again. And then he added being SEXY to that list. He
trapped me!! I fell for it HOOK, LINE & SINKER.
I HAD SEX WITH HIM AGAIN!! This,
after almost 2 years of NOTHING sexual, no touching, no sweet
nothings whispered, NADA!! He knows it's over and
he's just making the most out of the time he has left.
The real problem isn't him being nice again. It's the
fact that his being nice makes me remember how he once was, which
in turn makes me want him back. So now I'm questioning
all of my decisions for the last 2 weeks. Did I do the right
thing? Is there any hope that he could ever change? Or
did I just commit the most tragic cardinal sin of all?
Question: Is it better to just walk away, rather than
go down that road again "just for old time's
sake"? Have you ever had breakup sex? If so, what
was the outcome? (no pun intended.)
Thanks for reading!!
IS IT EVER A GOOD IDEA TO HAVE BREAKUP SEX?
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Posted by Thu Oct 29, 2009 1:16pm PDT
Report AbuseExciting....Yes! Good idea...no. I had an old boyfriend break up with me over a 9 month period. We both knew it was going no where, but he kept coming back....and I kept letting him. It was the thrill of having something one more time that is about to be lost forever. Even now, I feel that spark just thinking about it!! The resentment, however, can only grow.
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Posted by Sun Nov 1, 2009 6:01pm PST
Report AbuseI was going through the EXACT same thing! I was with him for 7 years, wasn't working moved out and he kept coming back being sweeter, more loving very passionate. The whole I can't live without you bull. I missed him so much sometimes. I was starting to spend the night every day and them a week later hey... he was right back to normal! I felt exactly the way I felt before I left. I told him I couldn't keep doing this to myself. It was hard to think of what I wanted and felt and needed that he obviously couldn't do for me when I was to busy wondering what he was thinking and if he missed me or if he still wanted me. Think about why you left and how you felt. Noone is going to have a permanent change in 2 weeks! Put yourself in his place. Do you honestly think that in 2 weeks you can change who you are?
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Posted by Tue Nov 3, 2009 7:59am PST
Report AbuseCrazy huh!?! i know how you feel me and my x were together for 10 months and i actuallly thought he could change so when we both aggreed this would be our last time working it out we ended up making love that same night thing was the next day he ended up calling me and telling me that he didnt want to be with me anymore! i mean i know it was coming i just didnt think he would do me like that so i guess when we were making love i didnt see it as him still loving me i just seen it as sex.
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