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Monday, December 14, 2009

Is it men or just me?

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Why is it that I want a "bad boy," yet I expect him to treat me like a princess when we're alone?  It doesn't happen.  A little ROMANCE would be nice!  What's wrong with me?
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  • Paul's Avatar
    Posted by Paul Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:31am PDT

    Basic behaviorial psychology. By dating a bad boy, you are rewarding him for being a bad boy. Thus, he continues to be a bad boy. Why should he go to the extra effort of being a good guy?

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  • jc's Avatar
    Posted by jc Sat Oct 24, 2009 6:10am PDT

    It seems like you're attracted to this sort of men because you unconsciously yearn for excitement,... which you're not capable of creating by yourself in your life.

    As to why he's not treating you like you'd wish, I'm going to break some ugly truth to you: "bad boys" are self-centered individuals who don't really care for their partner. He's with you because he benefits from it, probably mainly to get laid. Deep inside, you know he has little if any concern for you as a thinking/feeling human being.

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  • Matt's Avatar
    Posted by Matt Sat Oct 24, 2009 7:35am PDT

    Im sorry this makes me laugh..This girl is complaining about her bf being an a---- , and there is a post about why a decent guy is unattractive..

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