Is it okay to send a married women a secret
admirer Valentine? It would be just to let her know that
she has an admirer and I do not plan on getting anything
out of it. I wont even let her know that I did it.
I just think that it would be special for her to know
that she is still lusted for even after being married and
having kids. Don't you think that would make you feel
good about yourself??
Is It Okay To Send A Married Women.....
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Posted by Tue Feb 3, 2009 12:09pm PST
Report AbuseNo. Because she could think it's from another guy who is perfectly innocent. That could cause some problems you are not aware of.
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Posted by Tue Feb 3, 2009 12:33pm PST
Report AbuseI dont think its appropriate no, the only one sending her anything should be he spouse, dont go interfearing in someone elses relationship for your own satisfaction. She doesnt need to know there is a single guy out there that thinks she is hot MILF.
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Posted by Tue Feb 3, 2009 8:19pm PST
Report AbuseNO! How would you feel if that was your wife?? I really do not think that is a good idea at all!! In my opinion if you want to make someone feel good by sending them a valentine find someone that is single and lonely and send it to them or someone that is sick!! This lady should only get a valentine from her husband not from you that could cause her to start looking around at other men which in the end would only lead to heart ache!!
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Posted by Wed Feb 4, 2009 6:10am PST
Report AbuseNo, you should NOT send a valentine or anythingn else to a married woman. Keep your admiration of her to yourself and don't cross that line. Just because you don't tell her who sent it doesn't mean she won't find out, and it could cause a lot of problems. If you feel the need to send a valentine, find a single woman or send a simple, cheery note to someone who is feeling down. Leave the married lady alone.
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Posted by Wed Feb 4, 2009 8:15am PST
Report AbuseIf she was your wife, how would you feel about the guy that sent her a secret admirer gift? If you feel like you'd be Ok with it and your intentions are innocent and you are not interested in her, then yes, it would be Ok.
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Posted by Wed Feb 4, 2009 9:30am PST
Report AbuseNO! Like the others you have to ask yourself how would you feel if it was your wife. Its understandable that you want her to feel good but its not right to cross that line even with good intentions you could also make her feel very unconfortable so dont!!!!
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Posted by Thu Feb 5, 2009 4:52pm PST
Report AbuseNO It is wrong to lust after someone's wife. DUHHH this is a no brainer. Its her husband's job to make her feel special!
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Posted by Mon Feb 9, 2009 4:17am PST
Report Abuseyou sound like the man my ex-wife was just having "innocent" talks at work with that she ended up leaving me for... NO dont be that guy!!!
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