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Thursday, December 3, 2009

Is it wrong to set your standards high, such as while dating?

I am currently in the dating scene.  It's not so easy. What I mean is, I've accomplished alot in my lifetime, and I feel that I DESERVE to be happy, especially in a relationship.  I always say to my friends, "I'd rather be alone and happy, than in a relationship and MISERABLE.   I want to have it all!  Is that so bad?
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  • Tyler's Avatar
    Posted by Tyler Tue Sep 9, 2008 1:34pm PDT

    well yes and no

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  • stop's Avatar
    Posted by stop Tue Sep 9, 2008 1:35pm PDT

    No it's not bad to want it all. Especially if u Deserve it. Don't

    let anyone stop u. Mint that is...LOL

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  • tamekia's Avatar
    Posted by tamekia Tue Sep 9, 2008 1:36pm PDT

    No its not bad always remember IF YOU DON'T STAND FOR SOMETHING YOU WILL FALL FOR NOTHING...............................................

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  • *ANGEL*'s Avatar
    Posted by *ANGEL* Tue Sep 9, 2008 1:39pm PDT

    I FEEL THE SAME WAY GIRL

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  • Ashley's Avatar
    Posted by Ashley Tue Sep 9, 2008 1:41pm PDT

    no, i don't think u r wrong at all.i'm in a relationship and im not too happy and i have a man on the side now.it's wrong but i want what i want and i want to be happy as well.

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  • al's Avatar
    Posted by al Tue Sep 9, 2008 1:46pm PDT

    every woman who desserves it! wants it all and i hope u get urs go for broke and live the life ur lovin.al

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  • Super Abuelita's Avatar
    Posted by Super Abuelita Tue Sep 9, 2008 1:48pm PDT

    You go girl,

    You know what you deserve. Don't settle for anything but what you know is the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    shorty c

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  • Super Abuelita's Avatar
    Posted by Super Abuelita Tue Sep 9, 2008 1:53pm PDT

    You go girl,

    You know what you deserve. Don't settle for anything but what you know is the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    shorty c

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Tue Sep 9, 2008 1:57pm PDT

    Don't ever settle for less than what you deserve. I've made that mistake one too many times. If they don't like your standards, then they aren't the right ones for you. The man who respects you as a person first, then your standards is your best bet. Keep on going!!!!!

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  • princess's Avatar
    Posted by princess Wed Sep 10, 2008 6:19am PDT

    Thanks Al, especially nice, coming from a guy!

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