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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Is the recession good for your love life?

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There's a great post in Healthy Living today about fear during uncertain times (Roosevelt's quote "We have nothing to fear but fear itself," makes even more sense within the context of economic woes), and it got me thinking about how when I lived in New York City after 9/11, what followed the disaster was a phenomenon called terror sex. Salon sums it up like this:

"Many New Yorkers recall the feelings of vulnerability, the need to connect with someone physically, the hot, sweaty sex that followed the attack on the World Trade Center last fall. It wasn't sacrilegious; we just didn't know what else to do. We clung to each other -- just sometimes without clothes. Throughout the city were echoes of screams and cries of pain, panic, despair and passion all rolled into one giant force of uncontrollable emotion like none of us have ever experienced before."

Naturally, now people are talking about the similar recession sex. Apparently, gay-hookup website Manhunt saw its biggest numbers ever on the day of the Dow crash. Gawker, referred to it as "depression sex" in a post called "Just Got Laid Off, Now Looking to Get Laid," and Nerve published an article about why the downturn has certain romantic upsides called "10 Reasons the Recession Will Rock Your Love Life."

"We know that during recessions that 'cheap' entertainment usually does well—TV, movies, etc.—but the guys at Manhunt think their "cheap entertainment" is even more of a bargain. Just think: For the same price as a movie ticket, you can get a month of online cruising that may just end up with hot coupling."--New York Press

Do you think cheap sex is becoming more prevalent as well? Are you making romantic lemonade out of your economic lemons? Soooo, spill it...

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  • Jessica H's Avatar
    Posted by Jessica H Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:53am PDT

    I have to say I am having recession sex, not much money to go spend on things best thing to do

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  • MochaMama42's Avatar
    Posted by MochaMama42 Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:55am PDT

    LMAO!!! No, but perhaps I should.

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  • foghornleghorn's Avatar
    Posted by foghornleghorn Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:45am PDT

    I have been having recession sex ever sense my little froggie turned 52.

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  • Beth's Avatar
    Posted by Beth Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:55am PDT

    Well that would explain why areas affected more by poverty have a higher pregnancy rate. Kind of silly if they have sex because they can't afford to do anything else, but then in turn get knocked up and can't afford that either.

    No I'm not having recession sex because I'm actually doing very well in this recession lol.

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  • kuman30's Avatar
    Posted by kuman30 Mon Oct 20, 2008 11:20am PDT

    I do the best I can to try and make it happen since... there's nothing else to do

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  • Desmone's Avatar
    Posted by Desmone Mon Oct 20, 2008 11:31am PDT

    No because I don't have anyone to "make lemonade" with. No one of choice anyways, and I guess times aren't hard enough for me to go cruising...lol.

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  • DeadlyPoison's Avatar
    Posted by DeadlyPoison Mon Oct 20, 2008 2:24pm PDT

    Cheap sex=STIs!!!

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  • Tiffany's Avatar
    Posted by Tiffany Mon Oct 20, 2008 2:42pm PDT

    lol! "Recession sex"....what a way to value yourself...."Well, I don't have any money for the theater. Want to have sex, instead?" Hahahahahahaha....what a great conversation starter.

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  • Jeffrey P's Avatar
    Posted by Jeffrey P Mon Oct 20, 2008 3:20pm PDT

    The hookers downtown are not having "Recession sex" with me. They are still charging the same amount they charged before the Dow dropped. I wish they heard about it cause it's killing my pocket.

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  • Barbie's Avatar
    Posted by Barbie Mon Oct 20, 2008 7:12pm PDT

    Jeff:TMI

    But this blog is funny. Ah well...

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