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Sunday, December 6, 2009

Is Your Bedroom Sex Ready?

Though the economy is down, we know romps in the sack are up.

Susan Quilliam, editor of the newly revised The Joy of Sex, reported in her native UK last week, financial uncertainty increases a desire for the comfort of skin-on-skin contact. A recent survey of 20,000 Brits revealed sex to be their favorite low-cost activity.

The recession's love potion powers could peeter out the deeper into the economic crisis we get, Quilliam reasons, as anxiety kills rather than fuels the mood. That means, you best get your bedroom good and sexorated before it's used only for sleeping!

Enter Michael Shnayerson, veteran journalist and Vanity Fair contributor, who's offered some dos and don'ts for decorating one's bedroom with sex in mind.

Do get a good lock.

Don't expect to impress anyone (save those who are transitioning from a crib) with a single bed.

Do go for a queen-sized bed in lieu of a California king, unless you have a "more is merrier" bed policy.

Don't forget rubber bases to keep the bed in place and avoid nasty run-ins with neighbors, roommates or the police. "No need for rubbers of any other sort, if you don't get those rubber bases," Shnayerson warns.

Do use European pillows in the way they were meant. They are square like a chair cushion for a reason.

Knock boots, not books. Do keep side tables free and clear from non-sex-related items. We figure The Kama Sutra or the aforementioned Joy of Sex might warrant exceptions, however.

Read the rest of Shnayerson's sexorating advice, which includes essential (or is that es-sex-tial?) bedroom candle-burning etiquette, on Avaliving.com.

Written by Genevieve Lill for YourTango

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  • ufuoma's Avatar
    Posted by ufuoma Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:39pm PST

    I agree completely with Susan Quilliam and Michael Schnayerson and this concept of getting the bedroom sex ready because in this present era of global financial meltdown, credit crunch, etc, SEX, may well be the rarely thought of but, common part of homo sapiens that may not only console us but act as a source of hope that indeed, better days are just ahead. Just hang on.

    Ufuoma

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  • allee's Avatar
    Posted by allee Fri Feb 20, 2009 6:17pm PST

    Geez, I am really getting tired of those comment that are ads for some dating site.

    Anywho, to comment , I find that Making the bed, and locking the door are all we need. Being parents does not ever give us time to relax and enjoy. And with out fail middle of the night child having bad dreams happens a lot. I swear the kids are psychic.

    In an ideal grown up moment, I would prepare the bed, light some nice scented candles. lock the door. Or even better, get a sitter for the night. GRANDMAAAAAAAAAAA .....

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  • marian's Avatar
    Posted by marian Fri Feb 20, 2009 8:22pm PST

    hehehehee thas right............. love plus sex is important in our lives......

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  • Munawar's Avatar
    Posted by Munawar Fri Feb 20, 2009 8:33pm PST

    This is very who to making love in bedroom.i will like to bed light and i will like to doing sex and both of them looking sex proper or not and looking she is enjoying or not f------ is not love start for kissing and playing hole body .playing his milk and she playing with me.any think roung pls dont mind

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  • Aymen's Avatar
    Posted by Aymen Fri Feb 20, 2009 10:09pm PST

    let them show how to do sex and let them show the vigina

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    Posted by Aymen Fri Feb 20, 2009 10:13pm PST

    let them show how to do sex and let them show the vigina

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  • godiyal's Avatar
    Posted by godiyal Fri Feb 20, 2009 11:23pm PST

    love plus sex is important in our lives

    http://www.health.godiyal.com

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  • parvansh's Avatar
    Posted by parvansh Sat Feb 21, 2009 5:00am PST

    casual sex is one of the solution but sex until completed to the satisfaction of women it has got no use because woman has to be made fully satisfied when sex made to keep her free

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    Posted by parvansh Sat Feb 21, 2009 5:00am PST

    casual sex is one of the solution but sex until completed to the satisfaction of women it has got no use because woman has to be made fully satisfied when sex made to keep her free

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    Posted by parvansh Sat Feb 21, 2009 5:02am PST

    casual sex is one of the solution but sex until completed to the satisfaction of women it has got no use because woman has to be made fully satisfied when sex made to keep her free from tenisipon ond mentally happy after sex are made full to the satisfaction of woman

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