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Wednesday, October 15, 2008

It Feels Good To Be Appreciated

Many times, throughout the course of our busy days, we neglect to show appreciation to those who have been there for us. It isn't that we aren't grateful for their love, friendship, encouragement, and support, it's just that life sometimes gets in the way. But regardless of how much clutter we have in our lives, it's always good to take just a moment to acknowledge those who've got your back.

Recently, I've received some very encourageing comments on blogs posted on Shine, and that is a huge motivation for me to continue sharing my thoughts and views. Many of those comments encourage me to dig deeper. Both exploring what's important in relationship issues, and exposing what's going on in my own. There are times when I feel like I'm running through the park naked here, but so far, everyone who has seen me in the "raw" has encouraged me to stay that way. It's good to be appreciated.

I sometimes wonder how many of us miss that kind expression of gratitude in our daily interactions. I know that far too many people, especially women, feel unappreciated or underappreciated for all the effort you make to keep things together. Whether it's at home, or at work, or maybe even at home working on your relationship, sometimes peolpe just take you for granted. From the boardroom to the bedroom, some people just expect you to be there, giving your best, without a word of gratitude. Well, I just want to take a moment to say, for all of you who haven't heard it today... THANK YOU!

And to everyone who has read my semi-delusional rantings and have held on long enough to try to understand where I'm coming from, I thank you. For those who have taken the time to comment or offer feedback, I thank you even more. And regardless of what's going on in your hectic lives, I want you to know that you are appreciated. Thank you for being there fo me. 

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  • Hot chick_not!'s Avatar
    Posted by Hot chick_not! Sat Jul 12, 2008 12:58pm PDT

    What kind of story is that

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  • Terry Marsh's Avatar
    Posted by Terry Marsh Sat Jul 12, 2008 1:22pm PDT

    Liz... It wasn't meant to be a story. It's more of a revelation, or a show of gratitude. But, thanks for reading it.

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  • strawberry_b69's Avatar
    Posted by strawberry_b69 Sat Jul 12, 2008 4:50pm PDT

    I appeciate you more than you could ever know. Love love love you too... In case you had forgotten!

    x - S

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  • ButterScotch's Avatar
    Posted by ButterScotch Sun Jul 13, 2008 9:48am PDT

    Just want to say THANK YOU for that oh so inspiring blog entry and you are so right so many of us don't take the time to say thanks or I really appreciate you or what you did for me this just gave me a serious wake up call I will in the future going forward try to make sure that those whom are in my life know just how much i do love and appreciate them and again THANKS!

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  • MochaMama42's Avatar
    Posted by MochaMama42 Sun Jul 13, 2008 2:31pm PDT

    Terry, I enjoy reading all your blogs...it's nice to hear a male perspective on love, life, relationships,and even just everyday mundane things.

    Thank, YOU!

    Mocha Mama

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  • SolsticeAngel's Avatar
    Posted by SolsticeAngel Sun Jul 13, 2008 9:02pm PDT

    You always give me something to look forward to when I get online! Thank you! It's nice to know that there are people out there that can show their appreciation! Sometimes it seems like all those people are gone, so thankyou for showing us that!

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  • DimplesDee's Avatar
    Posted by DimplesDee Tue Jul 15, 2008 12:15pm PDT

    I want to say thank you Terry for continuing to grace us with yours words. I think they are very beautiful and I look forward to reading them everyday. They put a smile on my face to think that there are men out there who are thoughtful, considerate and passionate in the things that they do. Strawberry you are a very lucky women. Many blessing!

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    Posted by DimplesDee Tue Jul 15, 2008 12:15pm PDT

    I want to say thank you Terry for continuing to grace us with yours words. I think they are very beautiful and I look forward to reading them everyday. They put a smile on my face to think that there are men out there who are thoughtful, considerate and passionate in the things that they do. Strawberry you are a very lucky women. Many blessing!

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