It has been a rough year....

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  Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Tue Nov 24, 2009 7:19pm PST

  sounds pretty deep. I wish I had an answer for you or some advice or even something very positive to say...I just hope you find what you're looking for or he finds you.

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  Posted by J Montana™ Tue Nov 24, 2009 7:29pm PST

  Ms. Crys*,

  Thanks! Let's do it! ( the bad day)

  I am not certain how you uninvite someone?

  I just deal with it.

  Let me know how it goes.

  Have a great Thanksgiving.

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  Posted by VeeBee Tue Nov 24, 2009 7:34pm PST

  It's a shame! And most men like that are like that are all full of excuses and really don't understand the responsibility and strength that it takes to raise a child and be DAD and not just a father. And of course, we women have to be strong enough to be the mother and the father sometimes... geeze like we don't have enough on our plate to deal with already.

  There are men between the ages 30-35 without kids. Maybe even widening that age range a little on both ends may help to bring in more suitors... you never know. An open mind fuels an open heart!

  Shoot! Be mean if you have to and let them know they have to check themselves and their responsibilities at the door before coming to the social... or just tell them you changed your mind. We have a right! lol

  Good luck and Happy Thanksgiving :)

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  Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Tue Nov 24, 2009 7:48pm PST

  MS. CRY, SORRY FOR YOUR SADNESS, BUT KEEP YOUR CHIN UP. YOU HAVE LOTS OTHER THINGS THANKFUL. HAVE WONDERFUL THANKSGIVING :)

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  Posted by Ms. Crys* Tue Nov 24, 2009 9:11pm PST

  Silent Knight* thanks for popping up* I think he better find me, I have officially gone into hiding* lol

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  Posted by Ms. Crys* Tue Nov 24, 2009 9:13pm PST

  J Montana*** I already have my " GLASS" raised* LOLOL I'll let you know how it goes operation Un-invite goes into effect tomorrow.. I love your posts* love ya!

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  Posted by Ms. Crys* Tue Nov 24, 2009 9:15pm PST

  VeeBee--my bumblbee* You are right women have to be "extra stong" I know that I have to keep an open mind, but these idiots are adding bricks ot it. I think I may try to use a little bit of "I've changed my mind and kick rocks* and see how it goes.* I don't have kids yet, and of course I want a family blah, blah ... but at this rate geez* louise I may have to buy another dog*

  Happy Thanksgiving to you!

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  Posted by Ms. Crys* Tue Nov 24, 2009 9:16pm PST

  Wityfool2- You are right, I can't let someone stop my SHINE! I need to keep my chin posted ** Thanks for your words,

  Have a great Turkey Day!

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  Posted by *Rae* Wed Nov 25, 2009 1:38am PST

  yes, this is something I love to say..."Kick Rocks" Buddy...or MF (in my Foxy Brown voice)...lmao! U know I know what u r going through...uninvite...delete...whatever u have to do...because if they can put us on the back burner we def can do them the same way...i'm going to start doing like some of them..."no response"...no returning phone calls and texts...anyone who can pretend as if we don't exist in order to take care of their so called other life...def gets the boot...I said after Dec. 31st (my deadline for "suckas" to come clean) I'm so done...new year, new things...we have to open ourselves up for better things to come...enjoy the turkey...not the jive turkey!! LOL!!

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  Posted by Ms. Crys* Wed Nov 25, 2009 8:47am PST

  LOL@enjoytheturkey and not the JIVE turkey* you crack me up* I think I need to set myself a deadline as well, u are soo right there is no need to carry this unessary man baggage into 2010... I swear, is it that hard to find one man that wants the same thing you want... smh*

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