Its just pillow talk, baby...
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Alright folks, I need some input <(actually i'm getting plenty of that, that's what lead us here.) Let's say advice rather. I have recently gotten into a relationship with a spectacular man, whom I wish very much to please, but he is a little different than anyone I've dated before. He likes to talk, and i don't mean "hey what's new, how was your day", during sex. This is something I have never really be introduced to before. Oh sure, there's you typical "oh yes", "come on do it" and various standard exclamations, but those just don't seem to be what he's listening for. I just feel so cheesy when i talk during sex, advice anyone? What's hot? What's not? What do you think?
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Posted by Mon Jun 9, 2008 3:34pm PDT
Report AbuseI know exactly what you mean! I was in the same place a while ago... you feel like a wanna be porn star in a low budget flick. BUT! If it turns him on, try it. Don't try for the kinky stuff you think he wants to hear. Start by telling him what feels good, or what you want. Be explicit. He'll love it, you'll get used to it and maybe come to enjoy it. And if he laughs? Just another intimate moment. This is good, promise.
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Posted by Tue Jun 17, 2008 1:56pm PDT
Report AbuseI understand where your coming from cause i've been in that situation a couple of times in my passed relationship. But it has to do w/ the fact that ur not that comfortable w/ ur bf yet. Your probably a little shy about the whole thing or he hasn't turn u on as much as you think u could get. I found that if ur w/ a man that ur in luv w/ or feeling 100%, then u need to relax,and get in to it more. You feel that is cheesy when u say things like that but when ur there and ur feeling that good and u come out and say how good it feels ur going to get him more aroused. He's going to luv that ur feeling so hot and it's cause he's the one getting u like that. You need to commuicate more w/ ur man about sex, what he likes what u like. It will make the sex even better and ur relationship will become more intimate, good luck.
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Posted by Tue Jun 17, 2008 1:57pm PDT
Report AbuseIf its not being recorded, dont worry about it. Explore your inhibitions and try to free them from you.
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