Hello hello hello!
Sorry for lengthy gap between posts! I went MIA for awhile because I had to go home and attend to some family business.
Let me quickly bring you up to speed with the latest in my love life. Coffee Girl and I are still seeing each other, but by seeing each other, I mean exchanging late-night, dirty texts a few times a week to, uh, "hang out." Some of you had mentioned in the comments that our budding relationship sounded like it had the makings of a purely physical fling. Truth: That's exactly what it's become. And I kind of love it. After a lot of emotional back-and-forth with Jessica (whom I'm actually talking to a lot these days--more on her later this week), it's refreshing to have someone like Coffee Girl because there aren't any expectations. She's not looking for anything serious at the moment, and I just so happened to luck into the gig of being her (very willing) boy toy. No complaints here Sometimes, sex is just sex, and Coffee Girl and I are open about it.
Oh, about the sex: it's good. Coffee Girl was in a committed, monogamous relationship for quite some time before she met me, and I'm the first guy she's been with since that breakup. Let's just say she seems like she's trying to make up for lost time. The age gap has only made things more intense She's into the fact that a younger guy finds her unbelievably sexy (I do. It's her confidence!); I'm into the fact that she's an older woman and knows what she wants in bed and isn't afraid to speak up. (There's no guess work involved. She tells me what to do and how to do it, and I have no problem being the student.)
So for those of you who aren't in committed relationships: The thermometer reads like 90 degrees right now where I am; it's officially summer. I recommend that you go find yourself a fun fling. You won't regret it. And he won't, either.
Posted by J.H.
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