Okay, I'm trying to get a handle on what you ladies prefer when it
comes to making out while everybody's clothes are still ON.
If you're at that point where you're ready to have sex, but haven't
yet, what do you like best as you slowly work your way toward
getting naked?
What I usually do is start making out with her, and as we get more
aroused, my hands begin traveling. First, I'll slide them
down to her breast and gently squeeze the whole thing, waiting to
see if her nipple is hard, if so, I then give it a gentle pinch and
slight tug. Is this what you prefer? OR Would you
rather have the guy go underneath your shirt, his warm hand against
your soft skin, and slowly slide it up, lifting your bra up and
over your breast, cupping your naked breast in his hand, obviously
again, squeezing the breast and nipple both gently, but skin on
skin.
Next, I usually slide my hand to her ass, grabbing both cheeks and
giving them a squeeze, running my fingers across her a---- ,
applying light pressure.
Last, of course is the old palm against the thigh trick, sliding up
and rubbing my palm against her p----, applying slightly more
pressure with my first two fingers in an attempt to zero in on her
clit. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. In the case of
jeans, sometimes I've shoved the seam a bit too far between her
p---- lips, giving her a kind of, " p---- wedgie" that they really
don't like. So the question is, do you prefer the "outside"
foreplay, or would you rather have the guy unbotton your jeans,
slowly pulling them down along with your panties, and have him
slide his fingers inside your p---- for that close, intimate skin
on skin contact. (If wearing a skirt or dress, the same
procedure would apply)
Every woman is different - which do YOU prefer?
LADIES - WHAT'S YOUR PREFERENCE?
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Posted by Thu Oct 30, 2008 1:46pm PDT
Report AbuseI always prefer skin to skin contact. As long as it is going to go so far as sex. I want the guys hands to be traveling a little more before he decides to head down to my pants. I love it when things get super heated! I want to be as aroused as possible before he inserts anything...fingers, tongue, or penis! If it is not actually going to get to the sex, for some reason or another. Maybe the relationship is too new for that or whatever, I would, in that case prefer ontop of my clothes contact, but it would be limited to the top portion of my body. The lower region is generally saved until we are really going to have sex. I also love being kissed and licked all over! YUM! LOL!
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Posted by Thu Oct 30, 2008 2:14pm PDT
Report AbuseI agree alot with SolsticeAngel, if it's going to lead to sex then definetly skin on skin. But if not, then keep the clothes barrier there, but you could still get pretty heated either way. I love kisses all over, especially my neck, and collarbone area. When you're working you way down. :)
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Posted by Thu Oct 30, 2008 4:21pm PDT
Report AbuseI dont know, sometimes I love interruptions...where your just getting ready to burst into flames, get naked and break some carnal laws and bam, interruption...you mean I get to have another ignition? :) Yay! I might sound almost like S&M in the way of having to do things twice, but especially if the two of you are really hitting it off well, the repeat can just make it even better! Suspense? Or watching him "rise" as were making out, its just awesome. Take Care-Rachel.
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Posted by Thu Oct 30, 2008 4:36pm PDT
Report Abuseif it will lead to sex then skin to skin,never rush and undress her slowly praising every aspect of her body as it is revealed,ask her consent before you do certain things, kiss her all over and be gentle with the nipples.one thing i've realised is that men in their twenties are insensitive to the female body,thus women in their twenties hardly experience an orgasm
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Posted by Thu Oct 30, 2008 11:50pm PDT
Report AbuseProgression is key. Before undressing, I enjoy his "accidental" hints of passes. When I wear low necklines and/or high hemmed dresses, it means you're welcome to peak when we make out or even a slight skin-on-skin, a finger or tongue maybe every once in a while. Slowly undressing when leading to sex slowly heats me up as well. Oh and go easy on the nips, the pinch & tug is best if leading to sex. Your skin-on-skin tricks are great ideas, too. Kissing (anywhere) is generally a winner.
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Posted by Fri Oct 31, 2008 6:11am PDT
Report Abusei agree with belloved.the curiosity is great.but when it finally happens it doesnt seem to last that long because your turned on like that, just cant hold on at least for him,ya know girls can go one after another.
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Posted by Fri Oct 31, 2008 8:18am PDT
Report AbuseI think one of the big mistakes guys make it taking off her shirt before theirs. I love it when a guy takes off his shirt and then continues to make out for a little while. Let her hands roam over your bare back and chest. You will love it and she will to.
If you are on the couch pull her onto your lap (sideways across your lap is ok but straddling is better for both parties) Then pull her shirt over her head. And guys LEAVE HER BRA ON for a little while. I love it when a man takes my shirt off and kisses along the edge of my bra along my breasts. There is something so hot about slowly sliding down my bra straps while you kiss my shoulders and neck. If she is straddling you when you go back to kissing her lips you can hold her close and run your hands up an down her back. Then down to her butt. Give it a good squeeze and pull her hips against yours so she can feel how hard you are through your pants. . . . mmmm this is making me hot just writing about it. . . Sigh. Have fun
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Posted by Fri Oct 31, 2008 12:44pm PDT
Report AbuseI think that every mood/situation requires a different approach, I love the slow romantic tease involved with clothes on sometimes. Other times I love just having my clothes ripped off me and foreplay to begin skin on skin, other times I enjoy having the control of it all. Every mood, situation, person is different.
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Posted by Tue Nov 4, 2008 12:43pm PST
Report AbuseI think leaving clothes on until you barely contain yourself is soooo hott... if it's going to go as far as sex why not keep it heated until you are ready and can't stand it no more...Makes it more interesting and oh so good when you finally feel that skin on skin contact. Leaves a little to the imagination for just a bit as well, especially in the beginning of a relationship.
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