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Tuesday, October 7, 2008

LESBIAN KISS SHOCKER! (What's the big deal with same-sex PDA anyway?)

Associated Press

Associated Press


Argh, probably because I was so focused on Hillary Clinton and dudes who want to cheat on their pregnant wives, I totally forgot to ask you guys what you thought about the lesbian women who got in trubs at a Seattle Mariners game for kissing!?

Just to refresh your memory, the AP reported that: 

"As the Mariners played the Boston Red Sox on May 26, Sirbrina Guerrero and her date were approached in the third inning by an usher who told them their kissing was inappropriate, Guerrero said.

The usher, Guerrero said, told them he had received a complaint from a woman nearby who said that there were kids in the crowd of nearly 36,000 and that parents would have to explain why two women were kissing.

'I was really just shocked,' Guerrero said. 'Seattle is so gay-friendly. There was a couple like seven rows ahead making out. We were just showing affection."

Now I don't mean to cry over spilled milk, but I think gay civil rights is an important issue (duh), and I guess I just can't get over the fact that this could even happen in 2008! However, turns out, there's some he said/she said at play. While the blogosphere blew up last week about how the couple experienced discrimination due to their sexual orientation, Mariners spokespeople (who issued an apology to Guerrero), claim that the women were acting inappropriately, period, and their demerit had nothing to do with the fact that they were a same-sex couple. Still, I've been to enough ball games to know that drunk couples make out all the time and even though people smirk, I've never seen anyone called out for it. (In fact, I've always suspected it was a trashy ploy to make it on the big screen!?) Was there a double standard at play?

I guess regardless of who's at fault here, what really irks me is that parents would complain that two women kissing entails that they would be forced to explain to their children what gay means. Seriously, this is a problem? Are you keeping the tykes in a bomb shelter? I'm not suggesting that any parent prematurely give their kids the old birds and the bees talk, but surely a, "People kiss because they love each other," isn't too graphic.

What do you think?
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  • Stephen's Avatar
    Posted by Stephen Mon Jun 9, 2008 11:15am PDT

    Did they approach heterosexual couples who were kissing?? Why should it be anyone else's problem that these people may have to explain things to their children..guess what?!?...it's called parenthood...don't have them if you don't want to educate them!!!! Better yet...LEAVE THEM AT HOME...they probably annoy people anyway.

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  • dallasjoeyblue's Avatar
    Posted by dallasjoeyblue Mon Jun 9, 2008 11:23am PDT

    i think its ok to kiss in public as long as its not sex.

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  • Joy T's Avatar
    Posted by Joy T Mon Jun 9, 2008 11:25am PDT

    Obviously there are some super Religious folk in Seattle at the baseball games... Seems like it is more a call out on the gay couples then on the straight ones.. Honestly from a Christian point of view it is wrong, but I am not willing to call an usher and tattle tale because two people are being affectionate to one another.. If it was too graphic why didn't they just laugh and yell get a room. It would have saved everyone a lot of grief.

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  • chimaritaylor's Avatar
    Posted by chimaritaylor Mon Jun 9, 2008 11:34am PDT

    well I think that it doesnt matter what yor sexual interest is.a man and a woman can display public affection, but people always have something to say when 2 guys or 2 girls display it.if yu have a problem with it,then so be it,who cares what you think.

    "YOU LOVE WHO YOU LOVE"

    im gay, and I dont care what people think about me.i'll make out with my girlfriend where ever and when ever.

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  • michael32350's Avatar
    Posted by michael32350 Mon Jun 9, 2008 11:44am PDT

    Well since im bi i think it should not be any one elses problem wheter we kiss or not, although if their are children i will keep my PDA to the minimal

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  • rykel85's Avatar
    Posted by rykel85 Mon Jun 9, 2008 11:50am PDT

    I don't want to see two heterosexuals kissing and definitely don't want to see two homosexuals kissing. An innocent occasional peck is fine but full on PDA is inappropriate anytime you are at something like that. They knew better but were so adamant about showing the world that "we're gay and proud of it" that they made fools of themselves. I am heterosexual and if I had a child who was having to witness two people tonguing eachother down, man & man, woman & man or woman & woman, I would have said something to them or reported them too. Children need to be exposed to certain sexual situations when they are old enough to fully understand it. Those women were wrong.

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  • Rita's Avatar
    Posted by Rita Mon Jun 9, 2008 11:50am PDT

    It's Seattle of all places. I live here, in fact I live in the most gay-friendly community (Capitol Hill) and the fact that this still happens here just surprises me. You would think people would just get acclimated to it already!

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  • londonbunnies's Avatar
    Posted by londonbunnies Mon Jun 9, 2008 11:58am PDT

    me being a LESBIAN, i think that is just dead wrong... to me why worry about someone else and what they do, if the kids see so be it, teach them on it.. if they wasn't going to see it their they could see it some where else when you the parnters are not around. gay people have the samerights as anyone else

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  • flyingmind03's Avatar
    Posted by flyingmind03 Mon Jun 9, 2008 12:15pm PDT

    i love the way you put that explanation, that "people kiss because they love each other." it's simple, it's pure. it's not about whether someone is straight or gay or bi, it's just about the connection between people and the emotions they share. that's all that's important to know about it.

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  • Evelyn A's Avatar
    Posted by Evelyn A Mon Jun 9, 2008 12:23pm PDT

    I think this is ridiculous! During the games they encourage people to kiss with the "kissing cam" that puts a couple on the big jumbo screen and expects them to kiss in front of thousands of people " including children" and when a lesbian couples just kisses they make a big deal about it...thats just so hypocritical! Its not like they don't watch two men or two women kissing on tv all the time anyway.

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