Maybe a little more then you can handle
A very, popular trend is erupting in our society, today, that may not be considered a good idea to follow. With so many new and appealing ideas developing, daily, one must be very careful not to make decisions that could be unhealthy, unwise, or even dangerous. A simple, weekend get-together with friends could, easily, end in disaster. Whatever trend or idea that you choose to follow, it is important to make responsible decisions. Especially when someone you love is involved.
How does it begin? What is it that causes a loving couple to feel they need to spice up their relationship to the point of inviting another person into their bedroom? What, if any, are the consequences? These are some of the questions that I will cover and try to answer in a knowledgeable manner.
A common trend usually begins by someone trying something new, most likely to gain attention, and someone else thinks it's cool. The next thing you know, everybody owns a pair of "parachute pants". Trendy styles come and go. One day you're cool, the next day a fool. Some advice: Don't be the kid wearing the parachute pants after everyone else has gone on to "Spandex".
Nonetheless, attractive little trends are just like the wind. One day they're here, the next day they are ghost. What happens as a result of one's actions is what's important. The dirty stain left behind. The cause and the affect. The consequences.
Curiosity killed the cat, so they say. Flirting with new experiences sound so appealing.
Scenario: Perhaps, your boyfriend has been noticing, from afar, how good-looking your best friend really looks. He suggests to you how cool it would be to watch the two of you together. Two women. Kissing, fondling each other on the couch, and really making out. The next thing you know, he has you thinking how cool it would be. Just the idea gives you a little tingle. Hold on...let me get the camera!
The "menage et toi" (which is French for "threesome") has been practiced for thousands of years. Considered to be every man's most desired fantasy, it consists of two women and a man making love together. C'mon, because we all love each other, right? Just one time and then we'll...just act like it never happened.
One of the many, famous fads that pass by from time to time, it became re-popularized in the late 60's and throughout the 70's. This was "The Age Of Sex". Of course, after awhile the allure lost it's edge (perhaps, after the kids stopped doing so much dope, grew up, and started having children of their own) and the appeal wasn't so grand.
Well, the little fad has returned. The appeal seems wondrous and the allure delicious. Many people are trying it. There's nothing wrong with a little bit of f-u-n...or is there? Once again, I must remind you, readers, of the consequences.
Here is another scenario: You have just come home from a long day at work. Tired and hungry, your only interest is to kick back on the sofa, eat some dinner, and watch a little television. You tried to call your girlfriend on your cellphone a couple of hours ago, but she didn't answer her phone. Oh well, at least you're home and you can talk to her face to face.
When you open the front door to your house you notice, not only is there nobody home but, the house looks exactly the same as it did when you left for work this morning. The glass and the plate you used from last nights snack is still sitting on the coffee table, the green flannel is still hanging on the arm of the sofa, nothing has been moved or cleaned up since the day before.
This has got you wondering what's going on around here? Where is my girlfriend? You use the home phone and try to call her again. This time she does answer.
"Where are you?" you ask very concerned. It wasn't like her to not answer her phone or, at least, call you back after she realized she missed your call. You have a sickened feeling that something wasn't jiving. Something was just not right.
She explains that her friend "Jackie" had picked her up this morning and they had been shopping and hanging out together all day. She also tells you that she must have lost track of time. Then she says that she loves you and that she'll see you when she gets home.
You hang up the phone and just sit there. There is only one thought in your mind...Jackie.
Jackie was the cute, little blond whom you met at the party last weekend. You had never seen her before but, you and your girlfriend were drinking and flirting with the idea of inviting another girl to make love with. You've discussed this situation before with your girlfriend but, never thought it would actually happen. It started as a rousing, little fantasy that you had with your girlfriend. You didn't think it would eventually go this far...
Folks, I would like nothing more then to go on with this fascinating story but, I am sure you are getting the jest. The two scenarios that I've provided in this article, though completely fabricated, are as realistic as life itself. Situations such as these occur every day.
Personally, I do not feel there is anything wrong with adding some spice to a boring relationship. In fact, sometimes it is necessary. The idea is not to get carried away. There is a major difference between what is considered "kinky" and what is "perverted". It is kinky to use a feather, it is perverted to use a chicken. Vibrators are alright, but baseball bats are forbidden. Seriously, you don't want to damage yourself.
If you and your partner are planning to participate in a threesome, it is important to be prepared. Evaluate the possible repercussions before your initial engagement. It is absolutely unavoidable, there will be consequences.
As always, be responsible for what your actions may be and be considerate of the one's you love the most. That is what truly matters.
Until next time, keep on loving each other!!!
-Michael L. Wilson
