Let's talk about phone sex

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  Posted by looking Wed May 14, 2008 9:11am PDT

  my fiancee lives in Columbia, South Carolina while I still reside in Fairfax, Virginia and just about each time we talk on the phone we have phone sex, now it is not nearly as passionate and as beautiful as it is in person but like he tells me just hearing my sexy voice talking sexy to him - brings him to a climax right there on the phone....

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  Posted by Beth Wed May 14, 2008 9:15am PDT

  Phone sex is great, especially when in a long distance relationship. It opens up a whole new form of communication. As you said, it makes us vulnerable and gives us that intimacy that we get from actual sex. I agree that the only way to do it is to just throw yourself into it completely. I have to admit, I've always had a hard with roleplaying and acting, but once you get started it tends to come naturally. As for advice for the first timers or shy people out there, take a deep breath and dive right in. Put on your best breathless speaking voice and get ready to let your naughty fantasies out into the open. And try not to worry about sounding silly, just enjoy yourself and the steamy conversation on the other end.

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  Posted by Maria Wed May 14, 2008 9:17am PDT

  I did it once with my boyfriend when I was about sixteen. I was very akward and thought I sounded stupid and fake. Although he seemed to be much more comfortable with it, I couldn't help but think he sounded stupid too; especially after saying "Imagine me dressed as superman...and you can be she-hulk." I had to hang up to keep from laughing insanely!

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  Posted by CHERRY Wed May 14, 2008 10:21am PDT

  Phone sex is incredible, especially with someone you have a spiritual and emotional connection with, I'm in a long distance relationship where I live in Michigan and he lives in Virginia our phone sex is so good that I am sometimes left feeling dizzy, and we have yet to experience physical sex!! mmmmm good:)

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  Posted by Gapeach Wed May 14, 2008 12:22pm PDT

  My boyfriend lives in NY and i'm in GA. We have awesome phone sex almost every night. We talk really dirty to the point now we're just kinda running around the same scenarios. I would love to learn more to talk about but the pace doesn't stop just because the words do. If your in a long distance relationship you should really consider trying it. During the day while we're working my bf will text me nasty notes saying how good last night was and how he can't wait for tonight. I'm a very shy person and I find myself saying things I could never say face to face and my bf loves it. We put each other on speaker phone and allow each other to hear the moans, words, and noises our masturbation makes. Its nothing compared to the real thing but if you just jump into it you won't be disappointed. I even plan on get a few dirty talk tips from pornos.

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  Posted by Terms Wed May 14, 2008 2:15pm PDT

  Phone sex there is nothing wrong with it once you get started just go with the flow alet go .All you have to do is imagine the other person next to you if you love to talk dirty that even makes it sweater.I love to do phone sex if you wanna try go for it you will like it.

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  Posted by lypglossqueen Wed May 14, 2008 4:01pm PDT

  I did it for a living off and on for 12 years. While it did nothing for me while I was working, in my personal life it was amazing. I picked up a few things being a "phone 'ho" that I used with my boyfriends. You say things over the phone that you couldn't possibly imagine saying face to face.

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  Posted by Inky Wed May 14, 2008 4:39pm PDT

  Phone sex is awesome!!! When my fiance (at the time) moved when his job transfered, it was to be three months before I could move as well, so we would have webcam sex and phone sex as often as possible. We would start out by telling eachother what we were doing to eachother (undressing, touching, etc.) then we would tell eachother how our bodies were reacting to eachother's touches. It usually got pretty graphic, and to be honest, never took us long to *ahem* finish. It was so sexy to be able to hear his voice and imagine the things he was telling me while masterbating. I really enjoyed it!

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  Posted by robert Thu May 15, 2008 2:55am PDT

  i know when i talk to other ladies and the subjuct comes up on sex we can really get into it deeply i see no wrong but when we hook up its all good make there fanastys come true lots of women have alot of dirty secrects but you got to find a good sex partner

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  Posted by Ashsmom Thu May 15, 2008 6:29am PDT

  My BF and I have phone sex while I am at work...certainly makes the day go faster....but it makes the ride home unbearable!! I think I am going to go call him now...hehe

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