Love + Sex
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Lick it like you like it!
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Some guys just don't get
it. I happened to be talking to a female friend today who opened up
a little about her sexual frustration. Her problem is that when she
and her man gets down to doing the nice-n-nasty, she has no problem
doing whatever it takes to please him. But she says he always
freezes up when it's his turn to lick the luscious.
They've been together for over a year now, and she says that
though he goes through the motions, he's just not getting the
job done. I happen to know from experience (no details at this
time) that she's impeccably clean, delightfully delicious, and
loves a good licking. But she says that he goes about it like she
just asked him to take out the garbage. There's just no
enthusiasm at all.
I explained to her that some guys are into it, and some guys
aren't.
But my advice to guys would be that if your woman goes to bat for
you, then you'd better learn to lick it like you like it. The
last thing that any guy wants, is for some other guy to find the
flavor of her fruit. If you ain't doing it, believe me, I know
somebody who will.
Do any other women have this problem?
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Posted by Kat Fri Mar 20, 2009 7:56am PDT
My Fiance' and I haven't performed Oral on each other in a while. We both used to love it, actually. I'm not entirely sure what's changed but I'm assuming maybe we both didn't like it as much as we'd first admitted. It's something we will work on though since we'll now have the rest of our lives to figure it all out! :-)
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Posted by MOMO Fri Mar 20, 2009 9:12am PDT
nope..if i want it he dern sho does it..and he does it well..lmao
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Posted by RyneishaB_05 Fri Mar 20, 2009 4:02pm PDT
Man let me tell you, i know what your friend is going thru my ex was the same way but my new bf man o man he does his thang and he loves doing it, i can tell that he likes it because he doesnt ask for anything in return i guess he just loves to please me:)
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Posted by Nathan Fri Mar 20, 2009 8:21pm PDT
Yes i agree if the woman does things for the guy then the guy should equally do things for the woman. But it wasn't until with my most recent girfriend that i actually enthusiastically enjoyed returned the favor. You have to understand on a girl down there it is a very acidic environment, which is useful for poulation control so you females aren't popping out babies everytime you have inter-course and it's not that the guy doesn't want to please you it's just to some they can't stomach the taste very well... So if you have a guy that tries maybe cut him a little bit of slack you can also help this by making sure you wash beforehand... And also some forms of birth such as the Nueva ring I found distasteful... In all aspects of a relationship I beleive couples need to be open and honest and actually put effort and understanding in helping one another...
May God bless you
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Posted by Anthony Smith Fri Mar 20, 2009 9:05pm PDT
i do agree that if a girl gives me oral i should give her oral , and i do want to please her its just some women umm....kinda taste weird...yeah im sorry but its kinda akward, now i know someone out theres gunna say that guys prolly dont taste like the best thing but , its just strange for me , im kinda grossed out at times even , its just some girls dont keep their stuff..."fresh" idk , but i do like to give oral, its just sometimes i cant and ive explained this to my guy friends and they just say the same thing, maybe your friend should idk put somthing down there for him to lick it off , like a little game, idk im not an expert but i hope all goes well.
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Posted by James Fri Mar 20, 2009 10:43pm PDT
going downtown is the best. for me its always my love firdt to cum then me.
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Posted by James Fri Mar 20, 2009 10:46pm PDT
making a girl cum by oral WOW!!!! thats what its all about for me
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Posted by Annabelle Fri Mar 20, 2009 11:54pm PDT
well, my husband do really wants to gimme his best move when he's down there...
the thing is it takes time for me to convince him to do my turn..
i really love to taste him...
but he dont,
so i wonder why...maybe he's scared that i might gonna throw up!
LMAO
so, we just agreed to do one thing...
taste the last drop!
hahahaha!
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Posted by Ms. Fly Tue Mar 24, 2009 2:55pm PDT
My man loves to taste me. And I love to taste him. He does it all the time to me, he says he loves to please me. And he doesn't always want it in return. He does it before, during and after. I like it but I think he likes doing it more then I like to receive.
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Posted by Mz.Rissa Tue Mar 24, 2009 11:53pm PDT
Well wat if its the other way around i cant stand doing it to me its very nasty i mean why would you put something like that in your mouth where a person urine actually comes out. But my boyfriend loves doing it and im not gone lie yeah i like it but im just not ready to do it back.
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