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Saturday, July 4, 2009

Listening to sex - Does it make you a pervert or just curious?

I remember back in college when hearing people have sex in the next room  also every weekend, it seem to be a turnon.  Now that I have gotten older I wnat to know what others feel about this situation, and what you do when that happens.

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  • Maggie M's Avatar
    Posted by Maggie M Sun Jul 6, 2008 10:43am PDT

    It makes me horny. Depending on how they are moaning and acting, omg I love watching listening and most of all participating in SEX.

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  • Lyria's Avatar
    Posted by Lyria Sun Jul 6, 2008 10:46am PDT

    When I'm at my boyfriend's place and hear his two roomies going at it.. pretty much he & I just laugh at them because it sounds funny. Its probably different when you know the people, rather than 'the people who live over there'.

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  • marigned's Avatar
    Posted by marigned Sun Jul 6, 2008 10:51am PDT

    I also like listening, it seems a little dirty but it is OK because they don't know what you are doing while listening to them.

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  • johntek42's Avatar
    Posted by johntek42 Sun Jul 6, 2008 11:00am PDT

    SEX is a beautiful thing between two people in love! I love making love to my one and only...about others listening in and hearing it. Hmmmmm...could be sexy too.

    Know what's just as nice as doing the deed...the holding and snuggling after the explosions. There's just something about it that completes the whole sexual experience.

    Wow...just got me in the mood thinking about it, and sorry guys you can't listen in..LOL

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  • jac's Avatar
    Posted by jac Sun Jul 6, 2008 12:35pm PDT

    Hey when the bed is banging up against the wall and the moans are genuine and we are really into it, there better not be an audience listening in. That's just plain wrong. If I caught you listening in while I am making love to a woman, you better run fast because there will be a beating for sure. I will watch you from now on because I would think you are a pervert.

    My advice to those who like listening in, go and rent some porn flicks. At least they want to be watched and heard.

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  • T.T.'s Avatar
    Posted by T.T. Sun Jul 6, 2008 12:45pm PDT

    If you can not help but hear the sounds, that is one thing, but, if you know a roommate, sibling or neighbor is going to have sex and you purposely listen that falls under "voyeur" and boarders on "peeping tom". Purposely listening is the same as watching through someone's window. If someone is too loud and it doesn't disturb you, then find something else to occupy your time. If it is loud and you are offended, call the police and have them make a formal request to keep the sounds down. The only reason I suggest the police, (1) the neighbor won't know who reported it and (2) the police will state "several neighbors" instead of "a neighbor". If it's a roommate or a sibling and you are concerned about the noise, make a passing joke like; "Boy, you two really shook the house, I thought it was an earthquake". They may make a passing joke as well, but next time they might be a little quieter. Personally, I would be embarrassed if I knew someone could hear me and my fiancé together.

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