Love Stinks

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  Posted by casy Thu Oct 1, 2009 1:45pm PDT

  HE'S NO GOOD. PERIOD. MOVE ON. HE IS A PLAYER. GETS HIS CAKE AND EATS IT TOO. DON'T BE THE FOOL ANY LONGER, KICK HIM TO THE STREETS. HE KNOWS YOU ARE AVAILABLE NO MATTER WHAT, AT HIS SO CALLED BECKON CALL. STOP IT NOW. RESPECT YOUR SELF AND DUMP HIM. THERE ARE NICE , LOYAL, HONEST GUYS OUT THERE. BUT 1ST YOU MUST MOVE ON AND IN TIME YOU WELL SEE AND BE GLAD YOU LET THIS USER GO.....

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  Posted by urassismine2 Thu Oct 1, 2009 2:11pm PDT

  Your man has detached. He is already gone. This is not a break. This is called "containment". He has placed you in a position where he knows that you will not move from, emotionally,...while he steps off into the wild blue younder. This is so obvious...sorry, dear...Umm, the other chick is in on this deed. She is getting what she wants, and when her man comes home from the military,...knock, knock, knock- Here comes your ex-boyfriend seeking your long lonely arms...I can see this with binoculars on from here...

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  Posted by Baby - J Fri Oct 2, 2009 1:41am PDT

  I'm sorry to tell you but just get rid of him. He his not worth any of your time and you can do a whole lot better. I understand that men get very attached to video games. I have one of those who has been out of work for almost two months. But in these two months he still gets his ass up and filling out applications for employment everywhere possible. I work overnight and he even stays up with me and we search the web together looking for positions. He is very active in our relationship. He does alot of cleaning cooks meals throughout the day, etc. I dont think you getting on his case about getting a damn job is a reason for you to be seeing a phychiatrist. There is nothing wrong with you mentally and if there is it is because of him and that right there should tell you something. If this person is causing you more grief than happiness and you are physically and mentally becoming ill than he is not worth keeping. It seems that he is doing more damage to you than good and for that you need to get rid of him. You dont want to be one of those women stuck with a man who doesn't work takes your money and goes out and does whatever the hell he wants while y our busting your ass working and trying to maintain your home. One the topic of him living with a female whose fiance is in the military that is a big no-no. I have met alot of women who have fiances oversee and none of them were faithful. I came incounter with one this paste spring and she tried to talk to my man right under my nose. He is definately doing things he shouldn't be doing with her. He knows way to much personal info on her that only a man would know about his women. And now he wants to try new positions?? Where would he be getting that from. He is definately not for you sweety get rid of this a---- before he does more damage to you. You deserve someone who would love and care for you as you do for them and he definately isnt that guy. Good Luck

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  Posted by 88Gypsy Fri Oct 2, 2009 12:23pm PDT

  Dear ZeppGirl82

  RUN. Do not walk - to the nearest exit.

  This relationship is already over - you do not deserve to be this jerk's 'plan B' when his current situation goes south.

  I repeat:

  Run- Do not walk - to the nearest exit.

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