Help ladies ! i am marr'd 15yrs, 3 teens, and wonder what
i am missing re: my wife cheating, or having had done so w/in past
6yrs or so.
she started my suspicions yrs ago being hot/cold w/ affections,
emotions, and of course, sex. she accused me of affairs
occasionally, checked my stuff often. jealous of my conversations
w/ women (no, not flirts w/ women). etc etc.
Moreover, she got a phone call from what sounded like a younger
man, who declined to give me his name, and said he'd call
back. i calmly as possible (i do mean calm ladies)
asked her so as not to give her reason for an arguement, who it was
n why he
basically hung up, to which she said basically " i dont know"
and "...did u interogate him (sarcastically)?" to which
i said no, and restated my limited exchange w/ him.
She basically tried to keep the focus on me, what i said, how i
said it, and maybe it was so n so, from school ( w/ contradictions,
discrepencies to follow later with my futher questions to
her). this was say 5yrs
ago.
END PART ONE.
Married n cheating?
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Posted by Sun Sep 28, 2008 8:56pm PDT
Report AbuseYes dj i have discussed w/ her. or at least tried. sorry didnt include this but i posted short cuz seemed shine-yahoo was having problems w/ my original entry.
my wife is typically deny, deny, and/or what i call "red flag" responses (improper) for one who'll say she loves me once we hit some crisis pt, say, in one day to 2wks later. she's accused me of getting hangup calls in the past, to which i've said how can u think that? how can i respond to that? but am curious what she'd say if some pretty voiced gal called for me and hung up on her saying she'd call back later! eh? eh? maybe she tuck it away as i tried and let actions spell things out eh?
as i've learned to do, from her. i used to be all angry confrontational. so foolish, i know. but i'm chilling now. i just wish she'd a) say the right things or b)
come clean showing she indeed is a christian and has a conscience. so i could be assured or move on if nec.
i wrote here hoping some girly imput might broaden my perspective/perception on what another sister might be thinking or doing. alas, its the wkend so still waiting on more female help here. but tks dj.
cb45
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