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Thursday, December 3, 2009

Me or his mum ?!

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The relationship between me and my boyfriend is controlled by his mother…

There are things we bough like and agree easily, but if he has to chose something or make any decision he would rather listen to her. If she says I did or didn’t do something , he will try to be very diplomatic and treat me nice but still believe her not me. We have been together for a couple of years now. I was sure he would trust me by now..  What do you think should I do?

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  • elizabeth's Avatar
    Posted by elizabeth Wed Jul 16, 2008 2:13pm PDT

    you should try to very nicely bring up the situation to him how you feel.

    so this wont keep going on, and you being unhappy about it.

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  • Scarletstarkiss's Avatar
    Posted by Scarletstarkiss Wed Jul 16, 2008 2:19pm PDT

    Yes I agree with Elizabeth. At least try to talk to him about it first. A lot of the time though, it's a loosing battle for the girlfriend. He can always get another girlfriend but he only has one mother.

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  • Scarletstarkiss's Avatar
    Posted by Scarletstarkiss Wed Jul 16, 2008 2:42pm PDT

    Yeah, 2 sets of Sextuplets hardly equals 1000. I'm sure this person would appreciate serious responses to her problem.

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  • Kalyn's Avatar
    Posted by Kalyn Wed Jul 16, 2008 3:44pm PDT

    well my ex boyfriend was an exact mommas boy... she didn't really like me in the first place and as soon as we started to fight in front of her she spoke out against me. thats when things got messed up. he believed everything she would say about me not considering that me and him were the ones in a relationship. now i am pregnant and he wants me to get rid of it cause that is what his mom said... i have no clue what to do but i want him to feel my pain one day... i know thats for sure. but yea he will most likely never change so get rid of it. you need someone who can do things on their own and take responsibility for being a man! alrighty! peace.

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  • urassismine2's Avatar
    Posted by urassismine2 Wed Jul 16, 2008 3:45pm PDT

    Find a man who knows who he is, and who has a sturdier backbone than the piece of work that you've found yourself stuck with. His mother suffers from obsessive/possessive syndrome, and he is still in the puberty stage of his life, even if he does look like an adult. Doing what mommy says is not what is good for any man with aspirations to lead a family. This is what happens when there isn't a strong father figure around the home. This is typical.

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  • anaa's Avatar
    Posted by anaa Mon Jul 21, 2008 12:53pm PDT

    Thx a lot:)

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  • Tall and lovin it's Avatar
    Posted by Tall and lovin it Mon Jul 21, 2008 1:13pm PDT

    IT sound like he dont know who he is

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  • Luvly1's Avatar
    Posted by Luvly1 Mon Jul 21, 2008 1:20pm PDT

    Girl you should talk to him and if he doesn't like what you have to say then he is not good for you. You have to do what's best for you FIRST, not what's best for everybody else and then you. If you stay stuck to him and not discuss how you feel then you won't be happy until you break away and do you. You deserve better and you should go after it.

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