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So here is the deal.... Why has been answered time and time again but I still can't see how men can say it is a need. I am boggled at this because look how much america has conformed on this subject. Well last time I checked in the bible which was a million years ago .... lusting a woman is still considered cheating. You see why must a man look at porn if it actually hurts a woman to the depths of her heart. Men would you feel okay with it if your woman was constantly fantasizing about sex with someone else all the time. I feel like he is cheating and honestly from common sense would say they are doing it because you are not good enough they either at the time of watching want a blonde or bigger breasts maybe a bigger but.... I mean they are looking for specifics when they get their porn and usually those specifics are not similarities of their significant other. As much as everyone says this is normal , how can something that can really hurt someone you love as normal. Why break deals either I am going throuh pregnancy and of course with that comes weight gain, made a deal he could watch the porn i picked for him but nothing else til I felt good enough about myself again. So you would think if one person is giving in the other would be happy with that.Guess not found his teen porn :( yuck. I am 23 so what is the deal with thirty year olds looking up teen porn? That just make me want to puke. Here is a question to men, if you really love someone would you try to stop looking at porn if it hurt them? You know there was a time when porn was really hard to come across and maybe you were even shunned for doing that , so why can it be differant now? I wish I could be okay with it I have tried including it into my sex life I have tried watching it alone and none of that changes how i feel when I come across it. It has caused many ripples in my relationship and I feel justified in my choice that it is not acceptable. Are there even men who cherish their women anymore? finding that hard to believe... I think that men are just selfish women go as far as they can to make things great for their men and they just want more or something else. Maybe I just need to find a true christian man who "tries" not to look at porn. I don't know, what I do know is that this is something I know will come up again and again so I need a better understanding i will try to get it and hope I do but for now I think that men are little sissy's who need everything ttheir way.