So it's been a month since my ex and I have split...after
fighting for 8 long months, I finally threw in the towel...and to
say the least...I feel free and a little disappointed in
myself. After attempting to rectify our situation and he
didn't want too...I decided to move on. Hey, that's
all I could do. Since then, I have befriended
someone...he's funny, smart, and madly intrigued by me.
However, I'm taking it slower than slow...and every time he
tells me how he feels...I feel weird...
I know that love is far down the road...but I like him...but a part
of me feels like I moved on too fast...another side of me
says...you can't get time back...
My last relationship was the longest relationship I have ever
had...and I'm sometimes in shock as to why we didn't
last...but every time I hear from my new friend...it's like he
breaths life back into me...making me believe in romance and love
again...
But is this a fluke or am I really on to something good....I guess
I'll just have to let time run its course....
All opinions welcomed!
Moved on...
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Posted by Wed Oct 7, 2009 4:12pm PDT
Report AbuseTalk to him, does he know your previous relationship? Is he aware of how you feel about it may be too quick for you? Take it slow, talk to him and don't feel pressured to jump in the sack with him. If he cares about you then he'll be all to willing to wait and make him wait! You ma be in a vulnerable state whether you know it or want to admit it to it so take it slow. My longest relationship ended after a year of fighting and two weeks of deadlock fighting before we finally through in the hat. A week or so later I met a great guy and I had the rebound guy because I didn't take it slow. I learned a lot from it but it sucks learning the hard way.
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Posted by Wed Oct 7, 2009 4:30pm PDT
Report AbuseI feel in life we move to slow and we're not getting any younger! I say go for it and love with all you've got. The longest relationship is always the hardest to let go of because we truely get to know the person, and quite frankly we get use to them and would rather say than go. Above all listen to your heart and let your mind follow!
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Posted by Wed Oct 7, 2009 4:42pm PDT
Report Abuseyou guys give great advice...i'm going to take it slow but also show him that I do care....like you say if he really likes me like he says...his actions will be bountiful...regardless if i'm not sure what to do. thanks tara and sweet_luv!
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Posted by Thu Oct 8, 2009 7:45am PDT
Report AbuseI too spilt from my ex back in July, now I have a man interetsed in me and I am really trying to move forward, but I am not ready to think of another man intimately, or have one touch or try tio touch or kiss me, it makes me ill, still in love with the ex I am. :( So take your time and if you need more then be just friends for now.
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