My 4 Visual Deal Breakers

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  Posted by Suruz Wed Jul 8, 2009 1:32am PDT

  Whou are you

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  Posted by Inga Wed Jul 8, 2009 10:40am PDT

  Rich,

  All you've mentioned is a BIG turn down, and your list isn't complete. Would you like to date a girl who "doesn't have it together"?

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  Posted by bookluva Wed Jul 8, 2009 11:57pm PDT

  aww...i think balled up money is actually quite endearing....little sloppy stuff makes me melt!

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  Posted by Jasmine Mon Jul 13, 2009 9:24am PDT

  My deal breakers are the following:

  Faded or over worn clothes

  A guy that doesn't shave often and doesn't keep a hair cut regularly

  Someone who smells like he misses the important spots when he showers and last but not least.......... Someone who repeats outfits entirely too much!

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  Posted by simfelicity Tue Jul 14, 2009 5:45am PDT

  stop biting ur nails...or else i might think that u have some psychological problems....only kids bite their nails....

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  Posted by spacecowboy Sat Jul 18, 2009 6:19pm PDT

  Just want to say all those shallow and sub-intelligent women you talked to are not worth the time of day for a real person. When people make judgments based on arbitrary standards and refuse to accept that some people are different especially those who are way above average ( Einstein for example) it is not me who loses, it is them. When you look beneath the exterior of a person, that is when you actually see who they really are rather than what they wear. When a popular publication publishes this type of tripe it causes an artificial(fake) understanding of what is real and what is important. You should be ashamed of yourself for pushing such superficial drivel. What you should do is encourage your readers to look at the person and who they are not who their designer is. Encourage them to open their minds and to explore not only the world but the people around them. I know some women and men are so shallow that it does not matter, they only care about labels and appearance more than likely they will marry and divorce several times in their life, its not an individual they want it is an ideal and every adult should know that ideals are nice and fun but rarely ever can they be realistic. So instead of setting your readers up for a fall why dont you give real advice that can and will help them to be better more rounded and happier individuals rather than more of the same plastic masses whos only desire in life is to consume. Teach them to be human.

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  Posted by spacecowboy Sat Jul 18, 2009 6:44pm PDT

  I am not surprised at the comments of these women( most agree with me about how shallow it is to judge people on appearance) except the one about criminal history and drugs. I am a recovered addict three years and counting. Needless to say I have a criminal record, so what. I have a stronger character than most people alive on this planet, yes it did not manifest for almost twenty years,but now at 42 I am working on a Bachelors in Anthropology and will soon be attending a masters program in Colorado, I used a needle for over 15 years and Meth was my drug. I do have some health problems but thank god no H.I.V.. When you limit yourself you close doors that may lead to more happiness than you ever thought possible( I think without my addiction experience I would not have finally found my muse in Anthropology), you miss the blooming of the roses and will die never having known their sweet aroma. Close minds lead to hatred and racism and all kinds of prejudice. Its ok to want some one who looks nice and is nice to look at, I cant even deal with a women whos house is dirty and if your feet are not clean and at least semi-callous free forget it( not a foot fetish but if your feet are not presentable who knows how you treat the rest of your body) So its ok to have preferences just dont let those preferences keep you from maybe talking to some one who could change your life forever in the best way you could imagine.

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