my band

okay .. i've been playing bass for 6 years and recently was brought into a local band. not after two weeks of practice, my boyfriend gets a message from the front man asking him to sing some songs. okay .. he can sing but his voice is whiny and annoying... not exactly rocker material if ya know what i mean.

i don't have the heart to say it, but i was really looking forward to having something i can call my own without having to share this particular aspect of my life with him. ... everyone needs their space you know?

he's middle-aged, over-weight and still thinks he's got time in life to become some sort of rockstar! i think i'm getting sick of this man and hearing him talk about 'our band' just ----- pisses me off!!! i can't even be in the same room to practice with him without feeling like i wanna shove the neck of my bass up his ass.

now don't get me wrong .. i love this man with all of my heart and i will support him in all his decisions, but i worry that him being involved in THIS band, attached to my hip, will only ruin our relationship.