My Best Friend Is Sleeping With Her Boy Friend

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  Posted by honey Wed Nov 18, 2009 9:20pm PST

  Talk to your friend...the one who is sleeping with the other friend's boyfriend. Why is she sleeping with him? Is it just somewhat of a fling or is it something more serious? Is her self esteem in the toilet and this guy gives her a boost? When you know why you'll be able to reason with your friend to see if you can get her to see what she's doing wrong. Yeah, you'd want to know if the shoe were on the other foot, but sometimes it does more harm than good to just blurt it all out. And guys never see that kind of stuff as serious. To them it's nothing at all.

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  Posted by Constance Wed Nov 18, 2009 9:51pm PST

  Yes, you should tell the other friend because this problem could cause more problems than it needs to.

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  Posted by Baby - J Wed Nov 18, 2009 10:45pm PST

  This is a very complicated situation... I would talk to friend one first and let her know the predicament and stress she is causing you... If she is truly your best friend and sees what grief this is causing you she will fix the problem by A. telling the other friend whats going on or B.tell the boy she wont sleep with him anymore... If she gives you that whatever attitude or the "but this is what makes me happy dont you want me to be happy" story than tell friend 2... Dont put your friendship or morals on the line for anyone... stay true to yourself and to your friends... and if she claims to be friends with the other girl than she is a rotten friend and cant be trusted... good luck

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  Posted by Jasmine Thu Nov 19, 2009 3:02am PST

  Never snitch. That's there problems my nikka dnt get involved

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  Posted by sonja f Thu Nov 19, 2009 3:28am PST

  HELLO IF YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT YOU WOULD FEEL HURT THEN YOU KNOW SHE WILL TOO.I FEEL YOU SHOULD TELL AND LET GOD WORK EVERY THING ELSE OUT.FRIENDSHIP IS VERY VALUEABLE SO DONT TAKE IT FOR GRANTED.

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  Posted by Ahnighta B Thu Nov 19, 2009 5:32am PST

  Stay out of it. All will be revealed without your help.

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  Posted by Mauna Thu Nov 19, 2009 8:18am PST

  I hope she gets discovered, because what she is doing...is not a good thing and I can tell you one thing, that she will lose all her girlfriends when she is found out.

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  Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Thu Nov 19, 2009 11:21am PST

  Will first of all, she has no respect for herself and others, what so ever! She could be spreading something here amoung everyone and tell your friends, expose her, embarris her, get to the point and let it be known!.....to everyone and be honest too. You oviously know now that she isn't a friend of yours nor others. She will lose out on all her friends out their very soon and it will be revealed later on, warn your friends about her, but in a nicer way, without fights, but grown up conversation.

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  Posted by LYRICAL PRINCESS Sun Nov 22, 2009 10:33am PST

  plz do tell

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