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Monday, November 30, 2009

My mojo ain't working

There comes a point in every man's life when he hits a dry spell with women. When what was once an effortless display of raw personality and and a few smooth lines presented an attitude of "I'm gonna rock your world", becomes "please Baby, please, please, please". I can't say that I've reached the point of pitiless begging, but for some reason or another, I've hit that dry spell. My mojo ain't working.

Most men blame it on growing older, the changing social scene, or meeting more women who are already in relationships. Personally, I don't care about the reason, I just want to fix the problem. I've hit dry spells between relationships before, but never one that's lasted more than a few weeks. It's been a couple of months for me now, and I ain't pledged no vow of celibacy.

I talk to women every day. I'm around women every day. I interact with women every day. But when I go home at night, it's just me.

Don't get me wrong, I've had a few offers. But I've always been particular about who I share my time with, and 'Ladies of the evening' just aren't my thing. I've promised myself never to get that desperate, and so far, I've sweated it out.

It's difficult for me to believe that women go through such a phase. But in reality, I know that nothing could be farther from the truth. I"m sure thought, that the reasons for men and women are different. Women may hit dry spells in meeting the right men, or they self impose a dry spell to get away from the wrong men.

Regardless of the reasons, all I know is that my mojo ain't working. What's a poor guy to do?

If people say I'm such a great catch, why am I still alone?
Why do women support men who don't deserve them?
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  • naseh's Avatar
    Posted by naseh Sun Mar 22, 2009 6:10am PDT

    Live in such a way that those who know you but

    don't know God will come to know God because they know you

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  • urassismine2's Avatar
    Posted by urassismine2 Sun Mar 22, 2009 9:04am PDT

    Hey partner, the most sexy, intelligent, sane, and motivated women that I know of, happen to get fly and all spiced up every sunday at a church near you. Now, I'm not saying that just because they peek over that hymnal trying to get a peek at the available new male face, is going to get your mojo back on track. Still, there is an intelligent conversation, compassion, and a vent towards what a real "genuine" woman should look like. They could actually be no different from what you've been dealing with in your past. Thats a fact. However, they could have gotten a good nights rest last night, went to work last week, usually can cook something that came from grandma, and know how to break something on you that ain't never been broke before, if she is "for you". Now, the avaerage ideal, is that she's going to have her morals in place because women who partake of the pews don't usually roll like that, as a norm. They are usually very respectful women who are actively looking for a mate. I don't know what your looking for, or trying to complete in your life, but I will tell you this. I'd rather take my chances in a place of serenity and peace, than under the dim lights of a liquored cloud, in a distrustful club filled with one night stands just waiting to spring something "dupid" on you. Its your mix, but those women are more apt to bake you a cake, and treat you like a man should be treated, than to break your trust through the behavior of a trampling woman in heat. Mojo? It could all be about the type of women that you've been "stuck" dealing with in your adult life. Try new things, and let a woman show you what a real woman can do. She will soften up the rough spots that your past has hardened. Lust can do that to a man, because we weren't ever meant to use our sensibilities with the indifference of a tom cat. There just comes a time when our body shuts down from the wear and tear of life. We think that we've lost our "MoJo", when in fact we weren't ever living the way that we were supposed to be living in the first place. God Bless...

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  • DavidT's Avatar
    Posted by DavidT Sat Mar 28, 2009 9:04am PDT

    Wow , a couple of months??:) The above poster has some good points. But come on a couple of months?

    Sounds to me that your a womanizer who isnt all that interested in a reall deal relationship, and youre seeing the fact that as we age youre not going to find the easy women as easily.

    Grow up , if you want the playboy lifestyle well into your middle age , learn to f the skanks you have at hand. Cry me a river while youre at it

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