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Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Naked: Letters to your beautiful body

I spend a lot of time talking behind my body's back. I talk about my floppy knees and my weak little spaghetti arms, and my flappy belly. I talk about my sad non-boobs and I make fun of my Shar-Pei butt and I tell people that I would be perfect, if only I got a whole lot of plastic surgery which is going to be the answer to all my prayers and the solution to all my problems. I spend a lot of time talking about my body, and a lot of time ignoring what my body says to me (more water! Less Diet Pepsi! How about something that's not filled with sugar today? No? Okay.) and despite how I have disparaged it, put it down, talked smack filled with derision, and mocked this body of mine, it keeps going, strong and tough and even, dare I say, beautiful.

Via the very pretty Already Pretty, I discovered BlogHer's Letter to My Body project. Women all over the Internet are thinking about the stuff below our chins, reevaluating their relationship with their skin, really considering the way they treat and talk and use their bodies. And maybe it is ever so slightly dorky to address our bodies in epistolary form, but you know--it appeals to me. It makes the relationship between the you in your head and the you in your body concrete, reminds you how important it is, requires you to sit down and really think about how you treat yourself, your health, your well-being. And I am nothing if not a giant dork. And so I say...
Dear body,

You are beautiful. You are healthy and you carry me up stairs and along on my bike, in bed and out. You can bend and twist, inspire lust and desire, can do anything I ask you to. Anything I want to try, you're up for. You have brought me so much pleasure, and have brought so much pleasure to others. I have used you, and forgotten you, and have forgotten how lucky I am. I am sorry I have been mean to you. I feel I should apologize for being such an ----- to you all these years, for neglecting you, good body, for feeling ashamed when I was naked, for covering you up as if there was something to hide. I will tell you that you're beautiful more often. I will bring you flowers and vitamins and take you out dancing. We should be partners, body. Thank you, body, for putting up with my ----- .
What does your letter to your body say? Post it here in the comments, or leave a link back to your blog!

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  • trambaksamanta's Avatar
    Posted by trambaksamanta Thu Jul 3, 2008 12:55pm PDT

    hiiiiiiiiiiiiii h r u

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  • SolsticeAngel's Avatar
    Posted by SolsticeAngel Thu Jul 3, 2008 1:37pm PDT

    I really like your letter. I guess I haven't thought of this much, but we all really should think about treating our bodies better! Afterall It is our bodies that will be there in the end, if we take care of them they may just last a little longer, delaying the end just that much.

    After I was diagnosed with my thyroid disorder, I felt like my body was failing me! I have two beautiful children, that I had never had complications during pregnancy with, I really should be thankful for that! Without my body being so happily pregnant I wouldn't have my two little ones!

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  • mamash66's Avatar
    Posted by mamash66 Thu Jul 3, 2008 2:12pm PDT

    MAMASH. QUIERO AGRADECERTE POR TU CARACTER Y TU POSITIVIDAD PERO QUIERO QUE SEAS MAS FIRNE Y TENAZ AL SEGUIR TUS SUENOS NO PERMITAS QUE NADIE TE HAGA SENTIR MAL SIN TU CONDENTIMIENTO NO DEJES A UN LADO TUS SUENOS QUIERO QUERERTE MAS ANIMATE ADELANTE NO LO PIENSES DOS VECES TU ERES FORMIDABLE ERES LO MAXIMO Y YO TE ADORO ..

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  • carrenokarina's Avatar
    Posted by carrenokarina Thu Jul 3, 2008 3:19pm PDT

    does anybody know what the g-spot is?

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  • Halie's Avatar
    Posted by Halie Thu Jul 3, 2008 7:36pm PDT

    you should never think bad about your self alywas think postive because you are beautiful no matter what people say, you should not think about what other people say and think about your self and that positve things about your self.You should alywas think postive and even if you still dont like your body then think of a away to try to fix it and make your self feel better on the inside and out.

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  • The Future Mrs. Him :)'s Avatar
    Posted by The Future Mrs. Him :) Thu Jul 3, 2008 7:52pm PDT

    This sounds interesting and I think I might leave you a little letter to my body. Thus it begins:

    Dear Body,

    Well the only thing I can say is, I'm sorry. I have been so cruel to you for the longest time. I have treated you so badly, I've starved you, cut you, bruised you, abused you, and for what purpose, to try and change you? Well my fiance showed me something about you recently, I'm sure you remember, he told me you were beautiful and that he would prove it. He locked me and you in that room with a mirror and took your shirt and pants with him, and told us he'd keep me in there until I'd realized what he saw. Kinda stupid, what was he going to do? He Was on the other side of that door, but I looked in that mirror and realized, you aren't what you seem from my eyes. When I usually look at you I am so bitter that you are not bone skinny, that you aren't tall. But as I looked at you in that mirror, you remember what I said, right? "All this time....and I'm actually beautiful..."

    Body, I'm sorry, you are BEAUTIFUL, and I cannot believe i took that for granted for so long. I can't believe how much I've harmed you, for nothing! Body, I love you. :)

    That's my letter

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  • LUCKY 7's Avatar
    Posted by LUCKY 7 Fri Jul 4, 2008 2:59am PDT

    to answer the g spot question it is inside the vagina about 1 to 4 inches past the clit at the top of the vagina back towards the clit from the inside i think thanks please tell me if im wrong so ill quit lieing to my self lol

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  • adri_joe_duckie's Avatar
    Posted by adri_joe_duckie Fri Jul 4, 2008 8:31am PDT

    watchu need 2 do is just get over the fact that u aint got no ass n u got more belly than ass.. not only that but u also need 2 realize that ur body has a funny shape which means that u need 2 b careful with wat u wear cuz them rolls aint no joke!!

    another thing is that them spaghetti arms aint ----- .. try havin toothpicks 4 arms it aint that tight..trust me i kno!!

    but all u need 2 do is work out n stay fit... n u should start 2 look a lil better

    if that dont work then pretty much ur f***ed!!

    sorry 2 tell u but thats just the way it is.. but u should b happy wit ur self n ur body cuz if u look down on urself others will 2

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  • adri_joe_duckie's Avatar
    Posted by adri_joe_duckie Fri Jul 4, 2008 8:31am PDT

    watchu need 2 do is just get over the fact that u aint got no ass n u got more belly than ass.. not only that but u also need 2 realize that ur body has a funny shape which means that u need 2 b careful with wat u wear cuz them rolls aint no joke!!

    another thing is that them spaghetti arms aint ----- .. try havin toothpicks 4 arms it aint that tight..trust me i kno!!

    but all u need 2 do is work out n stay fit... n u should start 2 look a lil better

    if that dont work then pretty much ur f***ed!!

    sorry 2 tell u but thats just the way it is.. but u should b happy wit ur self n ur body cuz if u look down on urself others will 2

    Report Abuse
  • adri_joe_duckie's Avatar
    Posted by adri_joe_duckie Fri Jul 4, 2008 8:31am PDT

    watchu need 2 do is just get over the fact that u aint got no ass n u got more belly than ass.. not only that but u also need 2 realize that ur body has a funny shape which means that u need 2 b careful with wat u wear cuz them rolls aint no joke!!

    another thing is that them spaghetti arms aint ----- .. try havin toothpicks 4 arms it aint that tight..trust me i kno!!

    but all u need 2 do is work out n stay fit... n u should start 2 look a lil better

    if that dont work then pretty much ur f***ed!!

    sorry 2 tell u but thats just the way it is.. but u should b happy wit ur self n ur body cuz if u look down on urself others will 2

    Report Abuse
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